I have an 10 year old, seemingly healthy and sleeps about 8-9 hours per day. He does wake up by himself in the mornings. The big issue is he is a HEAVY sleeper; almost impossible to wake up. He can be verbally talked / shouted at, shaken, moved, wet rag, or the sorts. He falls asleep instantly usually and enters this heavy state almost immediately in just a minute or so. He is like a dead person; if he is lifted he is totally limp. The other issue is he can't wake at night and this is causing him to use the bathroom on himself almost every night (both ways). I have taken him to 2 pediatricians that say kids are heavy sleepers and he will probably grow out of this. I think he is more than a heavy sleeper. No idea what to do at this point.