You guys will have to tell me which post and which nickname(s) are causing the problem, there's no way we can read all these posts.

Phill,



This is the post that angered me -



Answered By: HVMA-M.D.-SA on Sunday, October 28, 2001

You are absolutely right. If the tone of this forum doesn't change, we may have to close it down.



- DrSteve



This post, was an answer to an individual most of us ignored, but few forgave for his criticism of Thomas, whose view Dr. Steve obiviously does not share. However, and this is obiviously beyond your control, many of us depend (ed) on this forum to work on our recoveryRecovery position - series and share. For the good doctor to 'threaten' us like childrenChild neglect and psychological abuse
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School age child development ( my take ) with closing it down, and in response to an idiot, was simply more than I could bear.



You've done a good thing with this site. Many of the participants have shared and recovered through it. If the vitality of it depends on Steve's personal whims, I for one am going to try and help provide an alternative. No, it may not be as erudite or as professional as some would like. But at least we will have somewhere to go if the good doc pulls the plug. And that, Phil, is not a problem an altrusitic tech like you and your pal can help.  Me thinks Steve is the one who should be answering here.



Thanks anyway,



FRank

Phil:

i can't speak for the rest of the forum but, i was real upset with

Dr. Steve's response to Dannielincc statement of 10-13-01 ("The disease of addictionDrug abuse and dependence"). I quote Dr Steve

"You are absolutely right. If the tone on the forum doesn't change, we may have to close it (the forum) down."



So Phil, does Dr. Steve have the right to shut this forum down? And

if not, shouldn't he have to answer to his unprofessional conduct?



I would like to thankyou for the service this forum has done for

me. It (the forum) has pulled me thru the roughest period of my life.



thankyou and keep an angel on your shoulder shoulders intensive treatment
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kip

Well... I'll give you my 2 cents worth... This forum is Med Help's no one elses, Cindy and I decide what forums run, no one else.

Phil, I would like to mirror Skipper's post to you and Cindy. I also owe a lot to the people of this forum and to you and Cindy for providing the space to use. I thank you and I thank them.

Power & Magick 2 U,

Wiz

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Frank

This is really interesting !! I returned today after 6 months off the forum and posted that you and Cindy have been totally responsive anytime I sent you a personal concern. I was glad to see your comments that YOU and CINDY alone decide if this forum is to stay open. Personally, I realize a physician often can clarify medical points and that is all he/she ought to be doing. However, the medical information he provides here is so limited that we all agree the doc here is busy with real life and often leaves a very active forum feeling undermined. Maybe it ought to be a patientKidney diet - dialysis patients to patientKidney diet - dialysis patients support forum in light of the fact that the medical replies generally are not too helpful. I hate to be negative but it has been the case. Best wishes and it's good to be backBack pain - low
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Could you also address the problem of posts being deleted or not posting?I personally haven't had trouble but some have. And don't know if it's on our end or the forum's. And would there be reasons why a post would be deleted. Thank you, Shotsy

The only help I've ever gotten on this forum was from the other users.  Dr. Steve never gives any useful advice....just tells everyone to seek a medical opinion.  What's he afraid of?  A malpractice suit? Then, in response to another user who is just a thorn in everyone's side, he says he will shut us down? Well, we have an alternative now. Thank you for all your hard work keeping this site up and running.

Ahhh Brighty,  just like old times,,,how wonderful to see those letters  BRIGHTY...I am so overwhelmed....one of my firstFirst progesterone mc10
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I did talk to Cindy last week and did get a respoinse from her which was very helpful,,,,,she had stated that she was waiting for a reply from Dr. Steve re: his ridiculous comment...Brighty and the others are so right in telling you about what has been going on....how Dr. Steve threatened to shut down the forum if the tone didn't change...everything was going along fine until DOC DAN started posting under the name of Danilelincc and thought we were too stupid to know who he really was..he never let us know he was at one time Doc dan,,,we are addicts,  not morons.....anyway,,his identity is not as important as the way he talks to people,,ridiculing, scrutinizing,,literally "picking" on addicts,,and the one person he has choosen to single out has been a very active member of this board at least for as long as I have been coming here,,,,I see no reason for his behaviorAutistic behavior
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Temper tantrums.....a sheer arrogant, pompous ass is what he is making himself look like....You and Cindy have done a wonderful job with this forum,,,,,it has saved many  many people from going over the edge...the forum and it's PARTICIPANTS...not the medical staff,,,I owe alot to the two of you for allowing us to participate on this board and we feel very welcome here and enjoy being a part of all this  until posters that feel they are one step above God start acting Holier than thou....we are not blaming you and Cindy for any of this,,we are however looking for a solution to the problems....we can ignore them,,,especially dan   he is a mere acorn ot all of these Oak trees that display such strength and grace, actually he is really a thorn,,,,,that tries to stick it to us any time he gets a chance,,,not remembering himself he is also an addict....like I said,  we can ignore him but unfortunately like a fungusFungus
Pulmonary aspergilloma (mycetoma) he will only get worse over time,,,I understand why he can't be banned,,,but can we at least ask him to refrain from being a hinderance to our recoveryRecovery position - series?  can we at least get him to understand that we do not have to live life on Dan's terms,,,but on life's terms?  he seems to think we are all big dope headsHead and face reconstruction
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In my opinion, this whole thing got out of control because of a guy that posts and for some reason has it in for Thomas, whom by the way, the rest of the people in the forum look up to Thomas and are crazy about him. FirstFirst progesterone mc10
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Drug-induced hypertension use."  Then there was the time he went into a rage because we "hijacked" someones thread....which as you must know, in order to interact with each other we have no other choice. It's rare to be able to post a new question. We usually try to help the original poster till Steve shows up...which is about every 3 weeks...then eventually one of us needs to make a comment or share a story and have no choice but to use a thread started by someone else.And why waste the one question that is allowed to be posted when we just want to talk to each other? Then one day the trouble maker managed to start a new thread and yabbered on about people "gloifying our drugChemical dependence - resources
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Drug-induced hypertension use" and he made a few other comments. That is when Steve said he may have to close this forum down if the tone didn't change. Sharing our stories about what got us to this point in life helps us to help each other. Some of the stories we shared were things we did in the past.....I guess that is considered "glorifying" our drugChemical dependence - resources
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The trouble maker also made rude comments to a woman in this forum who works in the mentalMental retardation
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So...in my opinion, that is how this whole thing spun out of control.....one jerk who thinks we are all scum and is under the impression he can walk on water.

When I come to this forum, it's to talk to the many friends I've made here. If this forum is supposed to only be about posting a question..then wait 3 weeks for Steve to tell me to see an addicion specialist in my area.....then I don't need to be here.

And if you look backBack pain - low
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ps....thanks to both you and Cindy for all the work you put into this forum. I truly appreciate all your efforts. This forum is great and I owe a big thank you to both of you for starting it.

With the exception of danielincc and Dr Steve....everyone here has been a life saver for me. Thanks to all of you!

So good to be backBack pain - low
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You are so right   about everything,,,and as usual so eloquent...I remember not only with Luke Spook but with one or two other posters that would come here and post under a different name...and we all had a big problem with that..i also recall you posting about it,,,Brighty,,I can't tell you how nice it is to read your words again...you turly are hat this fourm should be about,,how is your daughter?   hey BTW did you ever get the pics developed?   remember our little talk about laundry?  well, I'm as bad with pics as i am with laundry  LOL   Love ya  cin

Hi, firstFirst progesterone mc10
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I'm glad you clarified that you and Cindy are the ones who decide if a board stays. I agree with everything the previous posters have mentioned. To develop an online support group, a kind of cyber-familyBirth control and family planning
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Drug-induced hypertension was an obvious exception, and Cindy explained why the thread was deleted.)Unfortunately, the complaints about Dr. Steve are all too valid in my opinion. I have read one or two useful comments from him, but nothing compared to the help I've received from other forum members. For everyone's sake, I hope a positive resolution can be achieved.

Phil, I echo the thanks offered by everyone else so far. This board saved my life, and gave me the chance to meet some of the finest humanHcg in urine
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Little did I know, that in the depths of my shame and humiliation over my addictionDrug abuse and dependence, I'd find more love and support with a cyber group of other addicts than I've found ever before.



I really would like it if you could answer our question about why some posts get deleted.  I have had posts get deleted where I thought I had only been contributing positively. Early this summer, when I was trying to stay on a taper to go off the meds, I wrote a long heartfelt post about relapsing, and it was deleted.  I didn't understand why.  This has happened to others here too.



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love,

WW

Well, maybe this board can get backBack pain - low
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J.B.

I have missed you and now I know why. Love to Marty. Love, Brighty

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