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Stop the hurting!!!

by FesterTool, Dec 02, 2002 12:00AM
Hey,



I've been comming her to this forum for a good while now. I was helped to get over a terrible addiction with methamphetamine and misc. pills. They also helped me get over the death of my mom. (God bless.) I'm still being helped here with life. Stories and encouragement from all the people here make me stronger everyday. I was welcomed with open arms by people such as: Bmac (Bill), Hippy, Cincee, and Pixi.  Why isn't everyone else given the same oppurtunity?



Reading the post from the other day, I felt my insides turn upside down. It made me feel sick. All of us turning on each other with hateful comments and others fueling the fire! Why!



I understand both sides of the fight but it needs to stop nevertheless. I hope we can change all this.



Staycool!

Festertool
Member Comments (12)

by hippy, Dec 02, 2002 12:00AM
To: festerool
i read the post you are talking about,

i made no comment, because if seems to do no good.

anyway  you spond good in you post.

like you said stay cool and keep it light.

the comming of the holidays jusy makes people not them selves

by Nod, Dec 02, 2002 12:00AM
To: Hippee
What's happening Hippee?  Hope your doing well.  I just ignored the bitter posts as well, life is too short.  I've fallen off the wagon some after having major shoulder surgery - actually found out that my abuse caused me pain as the meds they gave me didn't come close to touching my tolerance.  Funny, but I had it coming to me.  Anyway, set up a new tapper and doing well to avoid the WD's as much as possible.  Got about 3 weeks to go then done (again.)  Seems like the never ending saga!  But, figure if fall, just keep getting back up.  Just wonder how many times this body of mine is going to take it!  If I remeber I'm about your age so certainly not an old man!  



Anyway, hope your doing well these days.



Nod

by hippy, Dec 03, 2002 12:00AM
To: nod
thanks nod, good to read you post,

i too had operations on both shoulders in

the past , they sure hurt.

well the taper sounds like your doing the right thing.

peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

by FesterTool, Dec 03, 2002 12:00AM
To: Thomas2 § Marposa
Hey.



Thomas, I understand where you were comming from. I too watched Marposa turn away addicts who were finally willing to get help, which we all know is hard to do. But Marposa, I think, didn't quite understand what they were going through, until now. I don't disagree with you that she had it comming, but maybe it could have been done a little more discretely to avoid more confrontation and more hurt feelings. And all of us are hurting enough already. I just dont want people to start veering away from this forum that has helped so many, and still has so much to give, just because they saw some negativity to addicts. I hope you understand my thoughts.



Marposa, Thomas is not trying to run you off, just make you see what you've dont to others. Think about all the people that have came to you for help. Don't take this the wrong way. Just remember.



Next, I want to know if we can get Marposa and Thomas to "Shake hands", so to speak. Just make up. I'm sure this would be a good step towards "Forum Peace."



Staycool!

Festertool

by Starraven, Dec 04, 2002 12:00AM
If I remember correctly in a thread that was removed,  Mariposa said she wasn't using.  Sorry, but she has finally gotten off her high horse and is down in the mud with us.

by Witchywoman, Dec 05, 2002 12:00AM
To: Mariposa
Mariposa if you are out there suffering, please come back and let us know how you are. I am sure folks are willing to let by gones be by gones, and there are people here willing to lend a helping hand and give you support.



Are you ok?



I thought going off bup was not as hard as other narcs, but I don't have any personal experience, and from how you sounded, it is is just as bad.



talk to us,

love,

WW

by groovygirl, Dec 06, 2002 12:00AM
To: ww § raven
Hi Witchywoman - I am surviving, and thanks for asking about me.  I'm just taking it one step at a time...I'll shoot you an email.



Raven - I never said I wasn't using.  I've always been open about using Buprenex.  Thanks for your input though...it's nice to know you are so interested in my well-being.

by groovygirl, Dec 06, 2002 12:00AM
To: festertool
I just wanted to say, I know just as well as anyone here how it is to kick - this recent experience was nothing new to me.  I just wanted people who might be interested in taking Buprenex to know that it is addicting and has been as tough for me to get off of as the massive quantities of oxys, percs and vics that I was taking.



As for Thomas, I feel sorry for him that he is still so filled with hateful anger - especially when it is directed toward some stranger.  It seems an awful waste of energy.  I can't apologize more than I have...holding grudges is for people with nothing to do, and as you can tell I have plenty on my plate right now.

by Rex1, Dec 06, 2002 12:00AM
To: Mariposa, Thomas
I have no right to ask this and have no seniority here on this forum. Im just an addict.



However, may I ask that the past experiences between you and thomas be forgiven by each, and they essentially die a permanent death right here and now, with no followups pertaining to this ancient subject?



(Key phrase - no follow ups...)



Lots of new folks here who need help from both of you veterans...

by groovygirl, Dec 07, 2002 12:00AM
To: Rex1
No offense, but I don't even know the guy.  I don't recall any conversation with him...ever.  So, his anger at the world has been directed toward me, and no amount of apologizing from me will help it.  I've done nothing to him.

by Thomas02, Dec 07, 2002 12:00AM
To: Rex1
Not ignoring you, Rex ... I committed myself to no follow-ups the day of the original post.



Thomas

by hippy, Dec 10, 2002 12:00AM
To: that aint right
peace!!!!!!!!!!!
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