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Sorry. I got the info I need. Can you remove my question so others can post theirs?
(p.s. It seems as though he hasn't been answering questions for a while. The last one I see is the on the 10th, and his answer was two sentences long.)
Nevertheless, I'll leave the Q spost open for questions to him.
I am appreciative that you guys are here...
Rex
My point is, I am happy there is an expert on board to answer questions. Go ahead an answer them. Look at any tread, there are many questions. Pick a hard one and answer it.
No disrespect meant here. This is just how it is.
Peace
Rex felt the need to say he was "sorry" for receiving helpful information. The good doctor must have emailed him the help he needed. Maybe it was the help received from board members instead.
Peace,
Mike
i find just reading the post of others helpful.
i have always been a big supporter of community,
my experence is that an addict alone is in bad company.
haveing people in our lives is so very important.
just reading a post with a little humor sometimes go's a long
way in making the day more bearable.
one thing about getting clean is getting feelings like
empathy and compassion back in our daily lives.
while i was caught up in the addiction of the pills
the only feelings i think i felt were fear and dread.
it's nice to come to the fourms and feel some joy and encouragement.
peace!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
complaining. The questions are for people who need the Dr, he cannot search through all of the comments to find the real questions. I think it is damn kind of him to come here at all to help any of us. If you are not happy with his answers all of the time well just know that there isn't always one solid answer to a question, also if he does not know the answer I would rather have him refer to another post on the board. And if it is a medical question that he feels needs to be answered by your own Dr then he is right in telling you to ask your Dr. One thing about these forums is that the Dr's cannot do hands on examination of the people here which makes it difficult to answer every individual medical question. We are also all very different and he would be a fool to just put any old answer down to a qestion he may not be able to answer without seeing us or having more information. I'm sorry I just got really annoyed at some of these posts today, It all comes from working in management and knowing that you just cannot make everybody happy. People complain constantly. To hear some of you implying that the Dr has not helped and that it was the people here who helped is irritating to me because you should look at the Dr's title and experience and ask appropriate questions if your question is not one that can be answered by him then post it under the commenst for the people here to help and leave the space for questions that are appropriate for this Dr's experience. I really enjoy this forum in the short time I have been here but I have never heard so much complaining in my life! I personally think though that Rex's question was appropriate for the Dr to answer and I am not sure that was even one of the questions they were reffering to. Anyway sorry to be such a downer I am still irritated from my husbands Christmas party, the company (phone company)doesn't do anything so his boss was nice enough to spend his own money and provide dinner for 150 people in his department. I was so shocked to hear everyone complaining that the drinks were not free or that the party was lame. For crying out loud he didn't have to do anything at all. Just as this Dr does not have to take time out of his day to answer any of these questions. He does it to help if and when he can! On that note I hope this didn't sound harsh because it was not meant to. I have no place really to tell any of you what to do but I do have a right to express my feelings. For today let's all try to be greatful that we have anybody willing to help us and a place we can come together and share our experiences and most of all our fears and frustrations and have people that actually understand because if most of you are like me you don't have anybody in you real world that actually does understand. I have become the misfit poor little lost soul surrounded by all the poeple who managed to stay on the right path who are probably just sitting there judging me as we speak.
PEACE!
Jen
10 days ago when I decided to clean up I also confronted a long time friend who I knew was in trouble. She thanked me for doing it. I told her I wanted her to tell her best friend and husband (I know well) by the weekend or I would! She has contacted the friend who in turn called and thanked me but told me she has not told her husband.
Should I stick to my guns and tell her husband Monday or give her more time or butt out all together. I know she cannot clean up on her own!
Thank you all, you've all helped me in some way no matter the comment!
Thanks for all the comments.
To summarize: I know that this forum is valuable to me, but costs me nothing. It does, however, cost them (Cindy, ATH) money to run, to which I have not contributed to (yet).
I should ask questions like this is a comment, and not as a main topic.
Thanks to all who repsonded...
Death to this thread.....
Rex
Rex
Rex, you have been so motivational to me and because of you I started weaning, you had faith in me and everyone here and it gave me strength. Just wanted to thank you. Also I replied in a long post to everyone who responded to me the other day but I don't see it anywhere. So I wanted to say thanks to all who responded and helped. Your words mean so much to me! If I am crabby here for a while that is actually a good sign that I am doing what I am supposed to be doing. I will try to keep my irritability off this board. I am actually a really nice person or at least I was and hope to be again soon.
Jen
You are the inspiration here - not me. If you and Lisabet and the others on the taper challenge, can pull off this taper to zero thing, you will have taken the torch from me, that was passed to me by the veterans (BodyM,Methman, Hippee, etc).
Make it happen - its so much better when you are on this side of the wall! Yeah, my back still hurts, but hey, what else is new?
Your journey may be into becoming a nice person again. Mine is to become the anti-wimp I used be (tough as nails, as a matter of fact). Thats one thing the Vikes did to me, turned me from a fairly strong person into one constantly complaining about pain. What did people in this world do before drugs?
I am going to find out...please join me...
I know you will win this thing. Get tough, mean, nasty, ugly, and refuse to give in. When you taper and succeed, realize the victory to yourself over and over.
Most of all - thank God for His Grace. It comes in its most potent form around Christmas time for a reason...
Love to you guys...stay strong!
Rex
Peace and love to everybody, really!
Peace and love to all of you, really! I'm thinking about everybody here.