Well no one is around...So folks..I am going back to bed....I feel horrible...
You asked what to do, you said you don't know what to do. The thing to do is NOTHING -- in a way.In that, you are doing everything you should be doing -- trying, fighting, TALKING, getting HONEST with yourself. Meaning, acknowledging your problems, accepting and owning them -- this is NOT easy. Us addicts often think we are 'weak'. What we fail to acknowledge (or recognize) is that it takes an INCREDIBLY STRONG PERSON to face up and DEAL. In some ways, we are lucky (us addicts). Our problem is obvious, our bottoms quick. Some people go FOREVER with issues that they never recognize (don't understand why they are unhappy). I always thought people in AA were so dumb for talking about being 'grateful' for being an addict. But, ina way, I kinda see as we addicts have PLCES to go (meeting, therapy, AA, whatever), in so doing we are able to find and fellowship with others struggleing with the same issues, there are recovery paths already forged that we can follow, places like detox and hosp. for those who want or need them.
If possible, you need to do the following today:
1. Take a deep breathe.
2. WRITE TO US and much as you NEED and WANT to.
3. Focus on this today -- venting, fellowshiping.
Let us help you weather today. I PROMISE you (YES--promise) that if you don't use today or tonight you WILL feel better. If you DO use it IS OK, I just can't promise that you'll feel better (kind grin). However, whatever today may bring, I CAN promise we are HERE no matter what.