I live with chronic pain and emotional abuse because I have a husband who controls my drugs. I have a grandfather who is dying because of being age 94living with chronic pain and going through a series of mini-strokes and a wife who refuses to give him a juice which can possibly help him. I want to die and have drugs to help with the process.(i never have enough in the house to kill me). I have tried the notorious monkshood but to no avail. Does anyone have any other suggestion to commit suicide that would not seem like suicide? I'm getting desperate. Can anyone help me? my e-mail address is ***@****. I also don't trust doctors as I was co-erced into major surgery that I did not want and mistakes were made. I am now living with those concequences because no one wants to take responsibility and they throw the phrase that their motto is to do no harm. Too late guys. By not respecting my wishes and then violating my health care directive you no longer have the right to try to save me.
I do know that box. Glad you're getting out of it.
Something about your post reminds me of myself. Maybe it's the combination of quantity, using just to avoid w/d, the facade of the great parent covering spiritual and emotional death, the isolation, the shame and the tacit acceptance of my own inevitable demise.
Those were the things that defined my life when I was at 35 to 40 10's a day.
I'm actually LMAO here, because it just hit me that the above-described condition of misery became the relative "good 'ole days," not long after I traded my hydro addiction for a crack stem - the facade didn't stay up too long after that!
Anyway, I would suggest that you try to do something about the isolation - it's an inherent part of active addiction, but it's not a good thing for Recovery. In fact, it's quite bad for Recovery. You don't need to address it yet, I know that being in wd virtually DEMANDS isolation, but after that.
This was hard for me in early Recovery. Long before I had any problem with any substance, I tended to isolate from most people all of the time and from all people much of the time.
AA meetings worked very well for me in this regard.
..... gotta run
How long was your taper? and when you quit last ime was it CT or was it with a taper also? Unfortunatly WD always get worse every time we quit. Most peeps go through W/D once a month when they run out of pills. Making the WD they go thru at the end the worst they can possibly be. Keep your chin up I can promise you it will get better.