I went to a 10 day detox for two years of 4-8 mgs a day of Xanax. I had been taking others, but already was a week and a half off the others. I was very afraid to go cold turkey from Xanax, so I got enough to stretch doses until detox. Once in, They gave phenobarb and muscle relaxers. 8 mg of Ativan is a lot and given the frequency and duration of use, your husband is probably dizzy for starters and on an emotional roller coaster because the drugs help the user to push down and suppress emotions, where now the suppressors are gone and the human has developed emotional debt, like credit card debt. It sounds like you're supporting just fine-
I don't have an educated answer for your question, but you both have made great strides for the past 6 weeks and I applaud you for those efforts!! I couldn't imagine what your husband is going through...is it mentally and/or physically? I would say to continue to research through this forum to help find some answers...I am doing this for the 1st time today also...and I hope for you, that somewhere in the words of all these remarkable people, there are answers for you and your husband. I truely hope that he is able to continue on... remembering there is a light at the end of his tunnel.
I wish all the best for you both
Ativan(Lorazepam) is a Benzodiazepene. Eight years is a long time at 8 milligrams. I have known a few and heard of countless others about detox. Usually they give you phenobarbital so you wont go into seizures. 95 percent of all people who go into detox for Benzos come out screwed up. There is no quick fix for detoxing Benzos. Recovery time on average can be anywhere from 6-18 months, give or take. It is horrendous compared to getting off of opiates. You need to go on a very slow, meaning months weaning process.
Go to http;//benzo.org.uk/ Professor Heather Ashton has been detoxing people off of benzos for decades and is one of the leading Authorities on how to slowly get offf of them. Everything and anything you want to know is on that site including a slow taper schedule for Lorazepam. Feel free to post back with any questions. elvistcb