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Lizzie Lou
by Tim2H, Jun 16, 2007 12:00AM
Lizzie Lou,
This has been almost one week in coming to you. I want to apologize for my brutish behaviour last Sunday. I think you are a great asset to this forum and give very good advice. I did not mean what I wrote to you last Sunday. I was striking back because I had been reading posts that I was another person. I let this fester in me for 3 weeks and then had a little too much to drink, I went full throttle to hurt you, as I felt hurt. This is not a excuse, by any means. I think your sons are so very lucky to have a Mother that truly loves them so much and is willing to give the tough love that will change their lives. I know my dry sense of humor can come off as being sarcastic, especially when it is written on a forum. I learned that last night when I hurt a lovely woman's feelings. I, therefore, would like to humbly extend to you a olive branch and hope that we can put this behind us. I want the room to be at peace and share advice/help/love to all that need it.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Sincerely,
Tim M H
This has been almost one week in coming to you. I want to apologize for my brutish behaviour last Sunday. I think you are a great asset to this forum and give very good advice. I did not mean what I wrote to you last Sunday. I was striking back because I had been reading posts that I was another person. I let this fester in me for 3 weeks and then had a little too much to drink, I went full throttle to hurt you, as I felt hurt. This is not a excuse, by any means. I think your sons are so very lucky to have a Mother that truly loves them so much and is willing to give the tough love that will change their lives. I know my dry sense of humor can come off as being sarcastic, especially when it is written on a forum. I learned that last night when I hurt a lovely woman's feelings. I, therefore, would like to humbly extend to you a olive branch and hope that we can put this behind us. I want the room to be at peace and share advice/help/love to all that need it.
Thank you for taking the time to read this.
Sincerely,
Tim M H
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Thanks so much.
Tim
what i did find was this...on june 7th...i replied to someone that i couldn't post my email address because i had two stalkers on the forum and so for obvious reasons i couldn't do it. on june 8th...in a post from ktodd...i again spoke about my stalker and i think it had something to do with emails...pardon my forgetfulness...have read so many posts over the last hour they are starting to run together.
last sunday morning...or maybe even saturday evening...i was first attacked by another person...out of the blue...i will not mention any names because it is not important. but let me say that his attacks have been going on for months...and that can be proven by anyone that has been on this forum for any length of time. i have accused HIM of using different s/n's...but only when i am attacked. most ppl here know of at least two different ones...he was booted from the forum with his first name...hence the second name.
shortly thereafter...you're attack began...and for the life of me...i cannot figure out why...or even find a post where i did what you have accused me of doing. now if you said anything accusing to me or jumped on the other guys band wagon...now that is a different story...i may very well have defended myself...but i don't remember that being the case. i don't even think i responded to the other attack.
tim...you said some horrible things to me last sunday...you attacked not only me but my children...damn straight i came back at you...anyone would if those things had been said to them...and i can honestly say that if you, or anyone else, attacks me so brutally...i will do the same thing again. over the past week...i have refrained from posting so as not to bring more drama to the forum...and during this time you have continued to make reference to me...without using my name...but everyone knew who and what you were talking about.
i am not going to get into the fact that some of the things that you said to me and about others...have not been mentioned on this forum since way before you ever came...there is no reason to rehash specifics.
i appreciate your intent to try and apologize to me...but i am sorry that i just cannot accept your apology at this time. i don't think that alcohol EVER plays a part in making someone say the things that you said to me...and i will not forget those words.
i am but a small number of the members on this forum...so i think it is possible for both of us to remain here and be valuable assets to others seeking support. we can both post to whomever we please...just not to each other.
sorry if this offends you...but like i said...you said some very mean and hurtful things to me...and i did not deserve them
now as far as i am concerned...this subject is closed. i will not mention it again and i hope that you will do the same...for the sake of the forum.
i do not want to be bashed by members of this forum because of this post. it is my right to accept or refuse an apology...and at this time...it is not the right thing for me to do. i would only be saying the words...because i sure do not feel them.
Love....
Ok, now Im done. SO, mom....how are u tonight? I hope u guys have a great first Father's Day..I know it will be fun for all of you. Look forward to talking to you and ms. liz tomorrow night if you can.
love tracy