my boyfriend has taken painkillers in the past not for pain. he says he doesn't want to take them, knows they are bad, etc, etc. but he tells me that he still thinks about them every now and then, when he has a bad day, or isn't feeling well. he took four at one time a couple of weekends ago, and felt awful about it, promises me he's not going to do it again. before that, it was over 3 months. i think he has a problem. when i try and approach him about it, he says he wants to get help (see a psychiatrist), but he doesn't do anything about it. i don't want to push him too hard, so he feels like he has to do something for me, i know that he has to want to do this for himself, but i think he is denying a problem, and i don't know what to do. any advice?