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My Dad is an alcoholic and wont get help.

by kittyfcuk, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
What can I do? I'm very worried about him and our family.he's been like this for a few years..he is 55 years old. Please help, I am so scared.
Member Comments (7)

by shelby74, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
Hi there,

Have you tried an intervention yet?

Shelby

by fishmeal, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
The best thing, I know it's gonna sound wierd, to do for your dad is go, (hopefully with your mother), to an alanon meeting. Their, you will learn what to do and what not to do which sometime is just as important.
best
fish

by beachtowel, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
To: kittyfcuk
Welcome to the forum.....

Sorry to have to say this to you I can feel the pain in your post but the truth is nobody can make him stop drinking.....

He is an alcoholic that means he has to drink and he no longer has a choice of stopping.....

A DUI or something bad may have to happen before anything will change...no one really knows when the light goes on in someones head telling them that what there doing is wrong and not only is he hurting himself but he is leaving victims all around him.

family members are usually the ones effected the most....

I am truly sorry that your going through this he needs to detox and go into a alcohol inpatient facility....

You will have a tough time convincing him of that he will fight you all the way and tell you he does not have a problem and turn it on you tell you your the one with the problem......

I wish you the best in these tough times......

by kittyfcuk, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
but he knows he has a problem.

by beachtowel, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
To: kittyfcuk
If that was true may I ask why he has decided to continue to drink. ...do you think he truly has a choice to stop?

by beachtowel, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
To: fishmeal
I agree 100% with your post........for people who are not addicts or alcoholics educating themselves to how the addict or alcoholic thinks might help in the way family members go about trying to help love ones in trouble find there way to recovery.........

Its very difficult for love ones sometimes to understand and put a rational explanation on an irrational problem.......

Non addicted people struggle with addictions of loved ones.....educating themselves helps tremendously........

Good post fish.......

by tztlady, Jun 27, 2007 12:00AM
Sorry to hear of pain you are in over your Dad and his drinking.  Perhaps he knows he has a problem but isn't quite sure what his options are in terms of recovery.  Has he talked about any solutions?

Best of luck,
tzt
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