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Im so sad
by bip, Jun 04, 2007 12:00AM
Im so depress and moody cause Ill be moving in a month and what breaks my heart I have to get rid of my puppy it's catching up to me. Im so sad cause when I get rid of her it's going to hit me and my 2 boyz hard. Ill never see her anymore. Im going to wonder if she will be in a good home. This is going to be a tough month for me packing, trying to find a good home for her. Everything is hitting me at once. I been working more than I usually. I guess things happen. This place doesn't aloud animals. I have really bad anxiety, and Im so depress and this doesn't help me at all. I just feel so sad today I get my up and downs one day Im happy and the next day Im not. Thanks for listening.
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You could always ask another family member or friend if they can look after your dog for a few months or put her into a kennel for that time while you sort things out.
stress will do many things to you , you just have to put your self in control and not your mind, it will take over if you let it than watch out your in trouble than. i was switched to atenolol, for months of pac, but my body just could not adjust to the side affects tiredness/weakness sick stomack, and so much stress anxeity, so i went off of it and back onto timolol which i have been on for 15 years, the next day i felt so much better , well i really felt better the night i said no more atenolol, so was it in my mind. i feel good now some stress but very little i deal with it now,or when bad pop a .5 mg ativan , so take it slow one day at a time do the best you can and start again the next day, you say the move will be good , so ya can get into a safer place, so thats good, and think about the puppy as you get her a new home and know they will love her as much as you do, its hard i know i could not move and give up mine i would have to find a place where he could go , but i know it dont always work out , so good luck and try not stress over this because once you move that will be over and you will be lost sleep,nerves for that. keep head up
That being said, you still have time to look at other housing options in the new area that you will be moving too. Do you feel comfortable posting a "general" area you are moving too? Maybe, some of us can find links to alternative housing which will allow a pet.
I currently live in a small town (10,000 people) and drove 2000 miles to get here over 3 days last year with only a car full of clothes, a TV, a blow-up bed, and some dishes/cutlery. I got here on a Thursday evening and had a place to rent and was "moved in" by the following Monday - this is the 3rd time I have done this (moved somewhere and found a place within a week). Your case is a little more difficult because your family is moving and its a "real" move which requires a little more planning BUT, if I can find a place in small town in 3 days, I think you can find a place that will accept your dog over the next month.
In terms of buying your own home..... There are lots of government assisted programs out there to help low income families and finacing available for families with credit problems (including those that have decleared bankruptcy). I dont know what your situation is but if you fall into any of these catergories you may be able to qualify for a loan. Something to think about.