Dear ceegee: This is a decision that should involve your oncologist as well as your gynecologist. As you point out, there are several options (and possibly others you haven't mentioned). Your doctors, those who know your complete situation will be best equipped to help you come to the best solution as it relates to you.
Good Luck
All the women there are either having an ablation in the near future or have already had one. They can give wonderful advice and let you know if your pain is normal or not.
If you reread this, can you tell me if you were on tamoxifen also? And if so for how long?
Thanks