Deany,
I feel the same as you do.
Sometimes I feel like I'm the only mom who is dealing with this! Please contact me through my personal email if you would like to talk further. I need to find someone who is dealing with this same situation.
Hope to hear from you!
Jean
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No, this is not to be expected with your average eight-year-old. You have told his therapist, and it might be useful for the therapist to schedule some time for you and your son to speak together with the therapist. It's not unusual for children to fail to mention such things to therapists. Children don't approach therapy the way adults do - i.e., as an opportunity to discuss matters that are on one's mind, things that mightbe stressful, etc. Remember, your son is only eight. It's not a matter of opening up, as you say - children think differently than do adults. It may be worthwhile to examine your relationship with your son. What are the strong points? Where do you think the relationship might have drawbacks? If your son is doing well in other areas of his life - school, relationships with peers, activities - the focus of the problem might be in the parent/child relationship.