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Child Behavior (Expert Forum)
8-year old acts up when going to school
Answered by
Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D. - Child and Adolescent Psychotherapy, Family Therapy, Crisis Intervention
Harvard Vanguard Medical Associates
This forum is for questions and support regarding child behavior issues such: Child Discipline (behavior management), Normal Child Development, Parent-Child Communications, Social Development
8-year old acts up when going to school
by tsurikomi, Mar 18, 2003 12:00AM
My 8-year old son starting crying whenever he saw his mother at school (she visits the school a lot) ... this has escalated to regular crying tantrums when getting on the school bus in the morning, refusal to get on the school bus, and crying if my wife subsequently drives him to school ... there's no evidence of problems at school ... the counselor has talked to him ... he's had periods (days) when he manages himself so he doesn't cry but it always breaks down and happens again ... we were hoping it was a period that would go away but it's been going on for the whole school year and appears to be getting worse.
Doctor's Answer
by Kevin Kennedy, Ph.D., Mar 18, 2003 12:00AM
, Mar 18, 2003 12:00AM
Your assumption that things would improve was reasonable - these sorts of reactions generally do resolve after a time. At this point, though, the situation does warrant professional intervention, because it's progressed beyond the point of what might be regarded as 'normal' separation anxiety. Almost always in such situations there is nothing really problematic at school; rather, the distress involves the child's absence from the parent. Arrange an evaluation with a pediatric mental health professional who can evaluate your son and plan with you and your wife how to proceed.
Member Comments (2)
by sweet pea provider, Mar 29, 2003 12:00AM
Is he is second or third grade? Maybe something is stressing him out in school like more homework or assignments (third grad is pretty difficult and rewarding) MY son is 8/third grad and we have to do all of our homework together everynight (always been a ritual), if we miss a night he pouts, and pouts at school. He sometimes will get stressed out if an assignment isn't getting done on time and will cry because he wants to be so perfect in class.
