I feel that my nine year old step son cries more than other kids his age. He's always cried when he hasn't gotten his way but we thought he'd grow out of it. My husband and I never give into his crying fits, and generally try to ignore it. Now he's nine, and he cries more than our four year old niece does. I know it's important not to compare him to other children, we never say these things in front of him. Some examples: Kyle, my stepson, and my husband got home from school and Kyle said he was hungry. I told Kyle that dinner would be ready in about 15 minutes and that he could wait, and he starts bawling. My husband, who has had to deal with this a lot longer than I have, asked him why he was crying but Kyle never answers, he just continues to cry. Eventually my husband gets angry and yells at Kyle which, surprisingly enough, usually quiets him. Everytime Kyle falls down, he cries. He's been having trouble reading so we were going to sign him up for a summer tutoring program. Kyle's mother explained to him that if he doesn't improve his reading skills, that she'll hold him back a grade. When Kyle got wind of the summer tutoring program, he flipped. I have never seen him cry so much! He thinks his summer will be ruined. We told him it'd only be a couple hours a day, 2 or 3 days a week, he didn't care. We tried to tell him that if he didn't improve he'd get held back, he didn't care. If he doesn't like what I cook for dinner, he cries. I tell him that he'll eat what we're having, that we're not making a whole nother dinner just for him. Five minutes after dinner he tell us that he wants a snack (something sugary)and we tell him he should have eaten more dinner, and that we'll only give him a healthy snack, and he cries. His mother and stepdad have the same problem with him. He spends most of his time either at our house or theirs, so we don't know where he's getting that this behavior is acceptable. We don't know waht to do, he's driving all of us crazy. Please help.