What a needless comment Robert. Dr. Rockoff reassured this man with sound medical knowledge, and you had to go scare him with nonsense.
His story sounds nothing like herpes.
It can be ahhh hell what is the name of that little bug that like to eat through the skin in wet dam areas (not crabs,or lice). Huuuumm anyway have your doctor give you some ointment that kills crabs and ... it will also kill it, dam what's the name of that bug.
Make sure you had blood work done for herpes and ask to see the lab results. Your doctor maybe trying to keep the family together. She may have cheated!
Given that you've already been examined, I'm sure this spot should be ignored. It certainly doesn't sound worrisome, and your sexual history is far from high-risk. Now that you know it's OK, I advise you to ignore it.
Best.
Dr. Rockoff
The anxiety just kills me. I have even stopped having sex with my wife for past 2 months.