Back in October of 2005 I lost my virginity, and I used a condom the whole time. I actually ended up using three, but by the time I got to the third one it started hurting the tip of my penis. I check it out a few hours later, and it was a little red and sore, but I put some balmex on it and it went away. About three weeks later I started getting intense pain in the same area. It was so bad it was hard to walk and my urine could iritate it. I had already been tested for gonorrhea and chlamydia, and both tested came back negative. I talked to the girl and she had been having no pain, and she had sex with only one person before me. I think the condoms could have had spermicide in them, but I'm not sure because I threw the package awy before I had any of the very intense pain. I saw a doctor at a helth clinic in my college, which is where I got the test, and he suggested using lotrimin, which didn't really help. I also tried baby powder, which helped a little but very slowly. I got impatient and tried hydrocortisone and that cause pain, redness, and inflamation everywhere, even on places it got on that did not have the rash, and I think it left a scar or chemical bur. I saw a doctor at an emergency health clinic and he gave me an oral antifungal med for 7 days. Later I went to a dermatologist and he told me it was balantitis and had me use ketoconazole. I stopped eating all sugar, because I thought I might have Candida, and I started taking anifungal herbs, topically and orally, and I took 3 Lac orally, which is a bacteria mixture like acidopholus that is suppost to kill yeast, and I started getting a white discharge sometimes when I would urinate, and one time it was clear and came out during my sleep, but it did not smell rotten, it actually smelled kind of sweet like bread or yeast, which is what I think it was, and the discharge was about three months after havin sex. My mother has had yeast problems and she started taking it too and she got a discharge. I started using tinactin jock itch spray, which helped. The pain is not like it was, but the tip of my penis is still a little pink and sensitive. I have been teste for aids, herpes 1 & 2, syphilis, and yeast about month ago and was reexamined and all test came back negative. I think I cleared out the yeast, if that's what it was and that is why it came back negative, and I went to a urologist who said I just had dermatitis, and that I couldn't have had balanitis or yeast becaue I am circumcised. Recently, when I masturbate some skin can flake off and the pink tip area can become red and I had joint pain, but I work out and I had had little sleep and it's better now, but could that have been a sign of Reiter's? Peeing does not really burn but can be uncomfortable sometimes especially out of the tip. Could I have an std I didn't test for? Could the discharge be a sign of std even thought it happened three months later? Should I get another test or see another doctor?