About a year and a half ago I had unprotected sex. Very stupid of me because I did not know the girl very well. Anyhow, a few weeks after I developed a small red rash on my penis head. Over time it has spread over the entire penis head area, but the concentration of the red area is on the top of the head when I am looking down at it. The area looks very scaly(doesn't look the way skin should) and my penis has a burning sensation to it some of the time. I went to the doctor and was tested for Chlmidia, gonarhea, and HIV. All were negative and the doctors say it is probably nothing, I am conviced otherwise. Here are some of the reasons why. After getting the rash my SO performed oral sex on me and she developed swollen glans in her neck and had bumps develop on the inside of her mouth. They just looked clear and raised and were a few centimeters big(estimated). Those went away. I spent a few days at the beach recently and after being in the water for a prolonged period, when I got out the infected area the skin was dried up and peeling off. Some more red flags for me is that 2 weeks after the unprotected sex, I developed apacia(hair loss) on my neck and recently had spread to my scalp. I recently also have developed vertigo, I guess thats meniers diesease, possibly from an inner ear infection. I have always been very healthy and never really had any of the problems I am recently having and feel it's all connected. The doctors have perscribed various creams, non of which helped and I haven't seen a dermatologist yet about the rash. Can he/she tell me anything different than the regualar doctors? What's your opinion on what I have? I did as much research as I could and the best answers I can come up with for myself is either HPV or Syphillis. Please Help.