Symptoms adding up - Is it HIV? (please read my whole history)
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This did not warrant PEP. I think the MD gave it to you "just in case". The chances of acquiring HIV after an isolated exposure of performing oral sex is tremendously low. So low, that most people would not have tested (even fully aware of the person being HIV+).
I know of 2 good friends of mine who had HIV+ boyfriends. Both had performed unprotected oral sex (but..protected anal) on them for years, NEITHER acquired HIV.
Now, thinking realistically, ..if they were performing oral sex on their partners for years, ...and you did thi ONE time on someone who was HIV+, .....the chance you acquired HIV through this exposure is indeed tremendously LOW....so low, it surely did require PEP.
BTW,
Your MD that prescribed the PEP should have made you aware of the side effects of PEP (or so I hope he/she did). Such affects could include liver damage, diarrehea, intestinal bleeding, etc.
I say that NOT to frighten you, but more aware that the precautionary measures provided by your MD could be more detrimental than the actual risk factor involved.
Good Luck.
B.
But it came down to the choice of knowing i could have done something about it, and not. Had I not, and end up infected, I would forever regret that. 28 days of nausea and occasional diarrhea was worth it to me. My question is whether or not it worked.....
"..so low, it surely did NOT require PEP".
I do know what you are saying, "just in case".
I believe PEP is only functional 70-80% of the time.
To be honest, I believe you did NOT acquire HIV through this incident.
Your anecdotal story is comforting, as is the spanish study involving the magnetic couples only performing oral sex. But I can't help but think what if I had a cut or had irritated my tonsils or something that made me susceptible.
Thats why I'm concerned about the testing period
You don't need further testing. Instead, I suggest you talk to a doctor about your anxiety over this event, and consider seeing a therapist.
I won't have further comments. Please take any further discussion over to the HIV Support forum.
HHH, MD
I'll take a 12 week and a 3 month. But I'm not going to worry. I'll go to a doctor and get something for my possible thrush (likely caused by my antibiotic) and stop worrying 24-7.
Thank you all for your support.
Just a quick response to your last comment; if you get another test at 12 weeks, don't bother with the 3 month test, only because 12 weeks is 3 months. I know it is not easy sometimes, but stop panicing, you have taken almost every possible test offered as well as PEP for a single low-to-no risk event.
Ryan