Without a thorough evaluation, it would be difficult to give a diagnosis. You report episodic rage triggered by alcohol, which may suggest alcohol abuse or dependence, as well as some features of different types of personality disorders. Inflexibility, rigidity, stubbornness, inability to discard worn-out or worthless objects, and a miserly spending style towards self and others may be suggestive of Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder. Excessive anger and pervasive distrust and suspiciousness of others may suggest a Paranoid Personality Disorder. Narcissistic Personality Disorder should also be considered. I suggest discussing behaviors that cause conflicts with others, and a referral for a mental health consultation.
Sounds like a typical alcoholic to me with typical outrageous alcoholism related behaviour. The rage and anger are common problems among alcoholics. That's why there are so many alcohol related violent crimes and family violence situations!
You may want to demand he get help to get off the booze or leave him before you get hurt!