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And, by the way, sorry for my awfull english.
I tried quite a few different medications, some for a long time.
I had good results with Zoloft for a while, but it had some side effects that made taking it going from a bad problem to a slightly less bad problem. If a medicine doesnt help the problem without unwanted and aggravating side effects, then you have already lost faith in the medicine with realizing it. Remeron has only two side effects that go away very quickly. The first one is drowsiness. It goes away in two weeks, and sooner if you go from 15mg to 30 mg. At 30 milligrams, you dont get sleepy until you take it. Since you take it at night, the sleepiness you feel when you first take it helps you fall asleep, and during the two hours after you take it, anxiety is absolutely no problem, and when you wake up in the morning, you feel ready for a good productive day. I have OCD, dysthymia ( moderate depression all of the time ), and anxiety. The Remeron controls
all three very well. I just wish they would have developed this
medication sooner, because alot of years could have been happier and productive years. If you are depressed, and arent getting any response from other anti-depressants, and especially if you cant sleep, because i know that lack of sleep in a depression episode can make you very anxious and makes you worry, and tired , oh god, so tired. Tell your doctor to try you on the Remeron. The second side effect is it makes you hungry all the time. To beat this side effect, just eat a normal diet, and dont worry about the hungry feeling. If you know you just ate a good meal, then you know that you possibly be hungry, so it is just the medicine making you hungry, so dont eat again until your next meal. This may sound hard, but you can control your appetite, people have done it for years, and you can too. Soon,
you will feel better, and you will be so busy doing things that you enjoy again, that you wont worry about eating.
And oh, as far as worrying all of the time, use the 6 month rule.
When you worry about something, ask yourself, will this really matter six months from now. If it wont matter six months from now, it cant be important enough to get all upset about and worry about it constantly. Constantly worrying about trivial matters ( matters that wont be there six months from now ) is a waste of time and energy, and it makes anxiety worse. Use the six month rule often, and soon it will become a habit, and your anxiety will be a small fraction of what it used to be. By the way, a little anxiety is a normal human response, if you went through life and were never concerned about anything, you would be in a mess. Take it easy on yourself, it aint as bad most of the time as we think it is. Yall be good, and good luck with the Remeron .
PHIL
I also think there is more to chemical imbalance than we know about,, I have tried several meds to no advail nothing is working, I have also done everything they told me to do,, I stopped the caffine, sugar, everything the said to do,, And now I am back to square one, they stopped the meds,, and now I am back to the full attacks,, more now than ever. On top of that the depression is on top of me until I cant see straight anymore, I cant sleep, I dont eat, its the same thing day in and day out,,, The worst thing is ,, is having your dr tell you that he cant help you any longer, what else can we do if we cant get them to help,, But I do know that I have tried all the self help things out there, herbs and meditation, and nothing has worked,, I am at the end of my rope, I went for help,,not to be told they cant help me anymore,, I just dont get drs anymore,, its stupid,, if you ask me,, And they get the big bucks to help us and here we are still the same 2 or so more years later,, Someone out there needs to help people like us,, because I know I hate feeling this way and no matter what I do I cant change it. But if you need someone to talk to just let me know,, will be glad to exchange email addresses,, Maybe something will help the ones of us that need help,,