In response to my last posting. My grandmother had a hysterectomy at 49 because she just had alot of pain and bleading with her cycle and she had already had her children so they offered her one and she accepted. My cousin had one because of cancer it was her 3rd diagnosis. My aunt had one because of endo. My mother was offered one because of the same reason as my grandmother. Also when I was 17 my husband and I had been married only a few months and I had unbelievable pelvic pain and alot of clotting also what looked like a breast implant had come out of me. Being so young and scared that my insides were falling out of me I went to the ER. The Dr. on call did a pelvic exam than proceeded to tell me that he was a gyno. and didnt know what he was looking at, and couldnt help me. He perscribed B.C pills and sent me home. I will never go to the ER for a cycle problem again. I have also been to 3 gynos they were no help. I also went out of town they turned me away at the door because they had already seen there max # of medicaid patients for the month. Now with no insurance my only option is the health dept. and we make to much to recieve "free" care. I dont mind not having children I have learned to accept it and we have decided to adopt it is a good option for us and good for the child who needs us. It wont be any time soon though. Well thats all for now. Thank you for your responses I have tried to find a good forum and feel I have now. Its so great to be able to talk to people who understand and dont brush you off.