Oh my gosh!!! I wish I had known this forum existed. Just stumbled upon it from my permanent bed on the couch. Diagnosed with dermoids about a 18 months ago. Just had them removed last wednesday. I thought it would be no big deal. My doctors were acting kinda weird becuase I was waiting so long so I went ahead and had the laproscopy thing. Never in any real pain before - just the woman pain that you you deal with. I came out of surgery minus an ovary, a tube, and they left part of an ovary on the other side so I wouldn't go into menopause. Never one to ask for a lot of support - the next day I got up and did five loads of laundry (carefully), vacumned the family room, and did the dishes. I couldn't just lay there and "waste the day away". I WAS SO STUPID. The next day I rested some more because I felt worse (duh) and by the next night I began bleeding from my incision. Okay - I am trying to do better now and I am truly doing very little. I even took off this week from work. The problem is no one explained the details of recovery to me. I am still driving to pick my son up from school and take him to soccer practice and someone told me it was bad for my insides. I thought I was not supposed to drive becuase the pain medication would make me sleepy. Since I did not take the pain meds before driving I thought I was okay. I really enjoyed reading about the abdominal muscle pains and gas issues - I don't feel so bad now. My question is - I need to go back to work next week - I have a choice of driving or taking the subway - which is the lesser of two evils? thanks
Hi Jane,
Yes the waiting is far worse than the actual operation. I was so scared & nervous a few days leading up to my surgery that I couldn't hold anything in my system. I would cry for no apparent reason, and the morning of the surgery, I felt like running away!
The hospital I went to was very good - the nurses were the best that I had ever had before, and they explained everything that was going to happen.
They gave me an anti-nausea pill prior to surgery, as I tend to get quite sick after anastesia (sp?). The doctors all spoke with me in the operating room as they administered my IV & anastetic. All I remember is getting very light headed, and then waking up in the recovery room. I think I even dreamt abit (what I don't remember- but it was pleasant - I normally have very weird dreams). When I woke up, I was very tired, but didn't feel any pain. At first, I thought I was at home. After about a half an hour, the nurses brought me to my room and my family was able to visit. The nurses (behind a closed curtain) changed my gown and washed off the betadine solution that was left on my tummy. They immediately asked me if I needed any pain medication, and wanted me to rate my pain level on a scale of 1-10. I was at a 4 range, so I didn't want anything right then. I visited with my family for a few hours before asking for some pain meds (they gave me morphine) and then fell asleep.
The next morning I felt incredible! Moving was a slow process as my ab muscles were tender, but overall, compared to the pain I experienced before surgery, I was doing great!
Each day I start to feel better and have more movement in my ab region. As of today, I've already lost 10 pounds and haven't done anything different!
I know that you will be nervous leading up to your surgery-it is only natural. But I am certain that you will feel like a new person (or at least your old self before the illness) when you get out!
I wish you the best of luck and will be thinking of you!
If you ever have any questions or are anxious, post me and I'll do my best to help calm your nerves!
Dana
I am glad the operation was not to bad and wish you a speedy recovery.
i am going in to hospital 31st october surgery 1st november.
Is the waiting worse than the op?
Congrats on getting your 'alien hairball' removed!! Be sure and let us know what your path report says!
Welcome to the RS!
~Marianne
Good Luck with recovery and path report. I am 8 weeks post op as of today and I FEEL GREAT! You will too!
best wishes for a quick recovery. week by week youll feel better and dont worry about the swelly belly im 7 weeks post op and it appears to be disappearing a now