Sounds like fun to me, and I think if it were me, the hats would be more special and meaningful. It might make you feel more loved and special and you deserve that, so I would definately do it!! Merytre
I think you should do it. If I had know about these parties before my mom left, I would have had one for her. If nothing else, it will be a wonderful day with family, friends, love and support. God Bless.