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Female Ejaculation
Answered by
Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. - Sexuality, family, Sexual Identity
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Female Ejaculation

by xquestionx, Jul 23, 2007 12:00AM
Hello there,

I was hoping you could clear something up for my and my girlfriend.

When she uses a vibrator on her clit she will squirt out a liquid (a lot of liquid) all over the bed.

She thinks that it is urine, I have been trying to convince her that it is female ejaculation.

Can you clear this up for us? ...I have smelled it before and It didnt smell like anything, last time she did it it did have a smell ...It did smell a little like urine but not really?

She said she feels like a "Contraction" rigt before she squirts?

I hope this is enough information for you to tell.

Thanks

by Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D., Aug 02, 2007 12:00AM

   It probably is not urine- though some women do leak urine or even quite a bit of it when they have an orgasm.  It may be ' female ejaculation' although I think that is not a real description of what happens.  It is not an ejaculation- a consequence of orgasm that aids the intensity of feeling. Rather,  it seems to be some of the same kind of liquid produced by a woman's lubrication. This can collect. for a minority of women,  in pockets of some glands and shoots out when orgasm causes contractions.

   This can be a lot of liquid or just a little- and other than using a towel, there  doesn't seem to be any way to control it or modify the wetness.  Its just natural for some women . There is some controversy , I should add, about what the liquid is, and how the mechanics work-- this is just the version that I have come to read in the medical books that seems the most reasonable explanation to me.
Member Comments (9)

by selective hearing, Jul 25, 2007 12:00AM
It is urine, women don't have anything to ejaculate. I'm not a doctor, but do know this.

by minton362007, Jul 30, 2007 12:00AM
Good point mark

by xquestionx, Jul 30, 2007 12:00AM
:) ...Yeah I have read that exact site and many like it ...thats why I am so confused.

by Yaime25, Jul 30, 2007 12:00AM
You know I've had that happen to me before, it doesn't happen all the time, only when I'm very excited.  I know it's not urine because I don't feel it coming out of my "peehole", it comes out of the vagina, for sure.

by xquestionx, Aug 02, 2007 12:00AM
To: Forum MD
Thank you for taking the time to answer my question.

by Nik<3, Aug 29, 2007 02:56AM
its not urine my god. its called female ejaculation for a reason.. look it up. LOTS of girls do it. its normal and it comes from a gland in the bladder but its not urine and it squirts or gushes or anything. tlel her to enjoy it because at first i thought it was pee as well and then i found out  its normal and that its another orgasm. you can also do it from the G-spot to.

by Julie - MD, Sep 04, 2007 10:53AM
You guys - do a little research.. there has been a ton of it done. It is simple.. collect the 'ejaculation' with a catheter in place during orgasm. The results after YEARS of similar studies.. most of the fluid is coming from the bladder. Figure it out from that!

by James11, Sep 04, 2007 09:51PM
Taste her urine. Then taste the fluid which comes out of her vagina when she is experiencing female ejaculation.
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