Actually I think it is anxiety related. I was feeling tired this week and today I feel better because I slept almost 10 hours.
I did do the freezing on myself a few times..maybe about 3x's on separate occasions so I bet I did some damage myself. It says not to do this stuff..but of course I didn't listen. I have an appt. in 2 weeks.
Nothing about what you describe sounds at all like herpes. However, something about the fact that the pain stops when you press on it makes me think it could be muscle spasms. Does that sound possible? Is the pain superficial, or deep? And what does your doctor say about this pain?
I am not the doctor but filing and freezing (self-treatment) do not sound good. I doubt you have herpes. YOu may have caused some damage that is causing the pain you describe. Not an STD, but seek health care.
By the way...I was tested for HIV/Syphillis, Chly, etc.- negative.
As you describe it, neither the nature of the pain nor its pattern and timing suggest herpes or any other STD. Herpes-related pain would be quite superficial, maybe tingly; generally would be associated with specific herpes lesions (sores); and would be expected to occur for a few days periodically, such as every few weeks, with no pain or discomfort at all between outbreaks. (Of course, it is conceivable you have a genital HSV infection, because almost 25% of the population is infected with HSV-2, mostly without typical herpes symptoms. But even if a blood test were positive, I would not necessarily conclude it is the cause of your symptoms.)
Most likely the pain and your genital warts--or whatever is causing the bumps you describe--are entirely separate problems. However, I suppose it is possible the pain could be related to anxiety over your other genital symptoms, fear of herpes, etc; Monkeyflower's suggestion (below) about muscle spasm might make sense as an anxiety-related symptom. In any case, after 2 years, it is definitely time to stop self-treating your presumed recurrent genital warts.
See a health care provider about both problems. You might delay scheduling an appointment until a few weeks have gone by without self-treating the bumps; otherwise an accurate visual diagnosis likely will be difficult. With your symptoms unchanged for this long, there likely is no health risk in waiting a while.
Good luck--- HHH, MD