New genital HSV-1 questions
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University of Washington
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My specific case is unlikely but true: my partner contracted genital HSV-1 by culture by an unfortunate oral-genital exposure to a mouth sore I had. I also tested positive for IgG to HSV-1 at the same time. We were careful for at least two months and used condoms and non-oxynol-9 spermicide (which has herpicidal activity in vitro) anyway. I still had no genital symptoms and we decided to forgo the condoms and spermicide. I developed genital HSV-1 subsequently, despite the fact that I already had antibodies. It never hurts to be more careful because once herpes infects it stays for a lifetime.
My story is just an example and a warning that you should be very careful especially very early in the disease. I would say the first 6 months at least. Why not take all the precautions for a little while: condoms, spermicide and valtrex daily (maybe even 1gm at bedtime instead of 500 mg)? If you do this for 6 more months you can then be more at peace with the low risk to her. You will also not have to worry much about breakouts for yourself. It will let the relationship develop more normally without the extra psychological stress of herpes. After some months have passed you will be in a much better spot to make a decision about what to do next. This is just my advice from a retrospective personal view and as a doctor. Good luck!
1. Have you had many outbreaks genitally because you acquired HSV-1? Are you taking suppressive therapy?
2. Has this situation put much stress on your relationship? I know I've had a very hard time accepting the fact that I have a disease with such a negative stigma attached to it. Any advice for moving on and letting go of what I have.
3. In regards to my fiance, has your partner (female?) had many outbreaks? I only ask because it sounds like females have it worse in terms of outbreaks when it comes to herpes than males do.
4. Do they make condoms with non-oxynol-9 spermicide, or do you have to buy it special in a different package?
I appreciate any additional insight you can provide to help myself and my fiance deal with this situation. It really has changed a lot of things in my life.
Take Care!
-GG
Women and men have equally frequent recurrences of genital herpes due to HSV-2 (and perhaps HSV-1, but data are unclear). In fact, men report slightly more recurrences than women--but part of that probably is because it's easier to recognize subtle lesions on the penis than on the vulva; true recurrence rates probably are the same, on average. But outbreaks do tend to be more painful in women (and in uncircumcised men), because lesions ulcerate sooner in mucous membranes and moist areas than on dry skin