31 years w/Herpes
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University of Washington
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Doctor after doctor has told me it was highly unlikely my outbreaks were herpes, even though the appearance--and most importantly the all-too-familiar feelings--were the same. However, upon testing, the outbreaks were, in fact, shown to be herpes. My current physician said she had never heard of such repeated outbreaks, in so many locations, over so many years, however she has my medical records to prove it. She sent me to another specialist when she saw the outbreak in my ear canal--and it was verified by that doctor as herpes.
I have read that such outbreaks lessen in severity. That is not at all the case for me. If anything, the pain, aching and lethargy ahead of time are worse now than ever before. Valtrex is not covered by my insurance, but Zovirax upsets my stomach terribly, so I opt to may the hundred and fifty dollars or more for Valtrex, when I need it. I feel that it helps shorten the life of the outbreak, though it does nothing for the pain. Nothing helps the pain!
I'm not writing to depress anyone, and I know most physicians would answer as this one did, in perfectly good faith. But when you know this disease like long-term sufferers do, you know it's not a short-term inconvenience isolated in one area. It can move around and feel excruciatingly painful year after year. I have learned to know the feelings and start on pain medication as soon as possible. Perhaps one day something will be found to help, but sadly I don't think I'll benefit much from it by then!