It is so frustrating when a doctor says it's "All in your head". Moreover, sometimes "in your head" doesn't mean there aren't actual symptoms which need medical treatment.

I once had a doctor tell me I'd feel better if I went home and put make up on. Shortly after that, and after seeing a different doctor, I had an ovarian cyst the size of a small orange removed, along with half of an ovary.

I hope you find a doctor with some compassion and a willingness to go the distance to help you, to at the very least relieve some of your symptoms.

Do you have any news yet?

Good Luck!

Hi!  Well the Dr. said none of my symptoms posted a red flag and I needed to relax because everything seemed to be hurting.  Obviously, he thinks it is all in my head!  He said I could have all the tests but wants me to wait to see my own Dr. who comes back in November.  I have an appointment with her November 6th.  She had sent me to a rheumotologist who has ordered more blood work but gave me something to take at night as he thinks I am not in a deep enough sleep.  Otherwise, I think he thinks I am a hypochondriac too.  I never complain about my issues to others and it is not in my head.  My feet and ankles swell at night and are swollen in the mornings.  How do I make that happen?  I have 3 things that bother me most.  1.  Fatigue, I cannot stay awake as my eyes become heavy and often my nodes in my arm and groin ache until I nap.  I nap at my lunch at school, nap when I get home, nap again before supper.  It is getting worse! 2.  There is something in my throat that hurts everytime I swallow.   The Dr. asked if I can get food down, I can and said everyones throat feels that way! 3.  My mid back now aches in the morning and I am getting pain under my right rib every evening and wake up with sharp ones at night.  I just need help and do not know what to do next.  Help???

Ahh... lyme ! Thank you, springbrock. I knew I forgot a good one.

please have them test you for lyme.

sedimentation rate (ESR) - inflammation
CRP (C-reactive protein) binding - inflammation
serum protein electrophoresis
routine blood counts
routine chemistry panels
increased muscle enzymes (such as CPK) if muscle involvement is present.
Anti-nuclear antibody test (ANA) t
Anti-DNA antibody test
Anti-Sm antibody test
Complement C3 & C4
T4 - thyroid
TSH - thyroid


If I think of anymore, I'll let you know ! Good luck with your appointment !