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Helping a friend.
by Ethan, Dec 05, 1999 12:00AM
I have a friend who has been under the effects of alchohol for a few years now, and it is sad that she is still so young. Recently my friend has run into a great deal of trouble with the law and is over her head in fines. With this she has made an attempt to stay away from the alchohol, but I fear she may be having more serious problems without it. She sometimes complains of severe headaches and stomach pains, somtimes so bad she will lay in bed for hours at a time. I have never known her to do this. I have also noticed that she hasen't been eating much at all, and day by day she drifts a little bit further away than the day before. She doesn't talk quite as much anymore, and rarely goes out, except for work. I am deeply concerned for her and her health. I also fear that when she does eventually pay off her fines that she will go back to the drinking. I have talked to her closest friend and found that even she can't get her to talk. Is there any advice you could give me? Is there anything I can do?
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You sound like a wonderful friend, but one thing I do notice as most of my girlfriend/female friends, opposed to the male gender while going thru a life change as this one,( getting clean) "us" girls have a tendencie to "isolate" ourselfs from the world of pain that got us there, and try to work thru it, personally speaking when I am there, I thank god and am grateful I am a very loved person, as when I "close" up or isolate, my firends try to bring me out, and if i choose not to, ( for me sitting and reading a spiritual book to do my homework helps, but I have also been told alot, that I do it too much, your her freind and a loveing one, is this "time out" she needs for herself to regroup?.....just be a constant reminderof support that you are there, when she decideds to "come" out of the substances war/wounds she will know who her true friends are, and who she can talk to good luck, and she is fortunte to have a friend who cares as you do..... its a rought journey and at times we feel we need to go it alone......< that doesn't last long> but while it does, it helps us reflect, ....
Hope all is well now, you posted your awhile back....
Kathy H