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Addicted to pain meds/doc put me on the patch

by Troxy, Jun 16, 2001 12:00AM
After a three major operations and taking pain meds almost continously for two years, I became addicted to them and took way more than I was suppose to. I have also had chronic back pain for the last year.  My doctor priscribed Lortab for the pain.  About a month ago I went to my husband and my doctor and told them I was not taking the meds like I was suppose to and that I wanted to get off of them.  Actually, I had already stopped taking them.  I had heavy withdrawals and felt awful.  Since I could no longer continue to take the pain meds, my doctor put me on the patch.  Of course, that stopped the withdrawals.  He told me that it was easy to wean off of the patch.  I want to know if it is really that easy to wean off the patch?  Could you please give me some information on this.  I have searched the web and cannot find the answer to this question.  I do not want to continue on the patch if it is going to be major problems to stop using it.  Thanks.
Member Comments (64)

by cindi, Jun 16, 2001 12:00AM
To: Troxy
I'm glad you asked that question,, my husband was just put on the patch and the pharmacist told me they are much safer than pills and not difficult to get off of...his doc also agreed...we shall see  good luck   love to all   cin

by J.B. to Brian and Vicky, Jun 16, 2001 12:00AM
To: Troxy
What patch?  Is it Duragesic by any chance or something else?

by jennyfla, Jun 16, 2001 12:00AM
Don't mean to interrupt, but wanted to let you all know 'i'm back'!!!

I did pretty good up at my parents' house, but it's being back here that's beating me down.

I lowered my dose from 60 mg or so of oxy's (crushed), to 15 to 20 mg of loratab per day all week long.  I would take 5 mg at a time spread out through the day.  The only trouble i had was sleeping.  I had to take a tiny piece of xanax (about 1.3 mg -- just 1/8 of the 10 mg bar).  I would go to sleep eventually.  I was waking up soaked the first few mornings, but it went away.  I managed fine on the 3 to 4 doses each day and was pretty proud of myself.  Plus, i think i even gained a few pounds.  I really look pretty darn good!!!! :)

I came home this morning, and i've slipped quite a bit.  Just being back home and around 'it' again, i'm just not very strong! :(

I really haven't had too much w/d pain through all of this, but then again, my levels never went below 15 mg per day.  

I need to find some strength to beat this thing.  Being back home was tough because my parents questioned me quite a bit about what was happened, exactly, with my husband and his addiction.  They know things are not good, but have no idea about my problem.  I just can't tell them about my problem, EVER!!!!  It would kill them i just know it.  

I'm going to try to get my head together again, i was doing so well, it would be a shame to loose ground now.

Just eating better, and keeping the toxins lower in my body made me feel great, and i was looking like a million bucks!

I had a great time with my kids, and they enjoyed spending time with their grandparents so much.  Another very difficult thing, leaving them!!! :(  Talk about guilt!  I feel so guilty living so far away.  We are basically stuck, we have a house down here, and claimed bankruptcy almost 2-years ago, and couldn't get another home.  Plus, my husband works in the boating industry, and we would need to live near the ocean, and it's cold up north, and the season isn't all yeararound like here in FL.  I've been in FL for 18-years now, and it's never gotten any easier being far from my family, and they've never let up hoping that we would return.  With each additional child, it seems like it's gotten worse and worse.

Soemtimes i wish that i wasn't such a sensitive person, and that my family didn't care so much.  Everything seems to hurt so much all of the time.  They will never be happy unless we live much closer.  Why does life have to be so sad!  I just wish i could be really really happy for a change.  It's been a long long time.

Thanks for listening.

Lv Jenny

by Milo, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: Jennyfla
Boy, could I relate to your experience! First off, congratulations on doing so well during your trip. Please don't beat yourself up about slipping after returning home -- maybe you learned some things during your vacation that could help you now? Anyway, I live far away from my parents also, and even though I talk to my mother every week, it's just not the same.  They have their suspicions about my drug use, but they have never given me any grief about it -- just a little concern now & then. I love them for that! I'm not recommending that you tell your parents, but I'll bet they would be a lot more understanding than you think. I'm glad your family had such a good time together. Hold on to those precious memories for motivation as you attempt to reduce your usage. I wish you the very best -- Milo

by Milo, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: Jennyfla
Boy, could I relate to your experience! First off, congratulations on doing so well during your trip. Please don't beat yourself up about slipping after returning home -- maybe you learned some things during your vacation that could help you now? Anyway, I live far away from my parents also, and even though I talk to my mother every week, it's just not the same.  They have their suspicions about my drug use, but they have never given me any grief about it -- just a little concern now & then. I love them for that! I'm not recommending that you tell your parents, but I'll bet they would be a lot more understanding than you think. I'm glad your family had such a good time together. Hold on to those precious memories for motivation as you attempt to reduce your usage. I wish you the very best -- Milo

by cindi, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: Jennyfla
Hi  Jenny,    I'm glad you had such a good time,,,I am leaving wednesday morning    My sister is coming up from NC and me and the kids are following her back down     then next Sat...I will be in the sunshine state.....Jen,, I know how you feel.....My dad moved to florida 12 years ago..I stayed up here with my mom...All though she not was sick at the time how could I leave her....?  I lived with her. my dad had his wife and other 2 kids...my mom needed my sister and I up here...I knew someday she would need me...and I was right....as much as I wanted to be in florida I had to stay in Ohio....yuk but I had to...mom knew that when all was said and done I would leave..my mom and dad split up when I was 12,  and when he moved away when I was 29 I thought my heart would break all over again...I have always been close to both of my parents but my mom and I had something very special....we fought like cats and dogs one minute and then forgot about it the next..LOL  life is hard hon,  life is soooooo  sad sometimes also....I look at my 2 beautiful babies and thank God everyday for them, and my husband...they keep me going....( I really do not care for the age 7 though )  she thinks she is 17....arrgh  the time has come to be with my dad....I have one parent left and I am spending time with him now...my little sister (my dad's daughter) is very jealous of me...she is 23 going on 3....being his first born we have had a special relationship from the get go and she is livid that I am moving down there...thinking I am going to take her daddy away...she wrote a horrible letter to my other sister about me.. one wrong word out of that little *****'s mouth  my dad gets the letter.....period  I am tired of her **** already....anyway,,there is turmoil I suppose in every family...I am soo glad your back.....i guess I'll go finish watching the rugrats in Paris for the 20th time and spend time with doug on father's day....love you   cin.

by cindi, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: ALL THE DAD'S
I want to wish all the dad's in dad land a happy wonderful father's day......love all of you    cin

by Milo, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: Cindi
You have my sympathy re your sister. My sister and I have fought like cats & dogs all our lives. There were a couple of brief periods when we got along well -- but they never lasted long. Just wanted to say I know where you're coming from & wish you well in dealing w/her--Milo

by cindi, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: PS TO ANYONE
I just had a brainstorm  LOL     I am female...I am traveling with 2 small kids....frequent rest stops...(all though alec thinks he can pee anywhere  and he can  LOL )   what If the rest areas started installing computers in each rest area..?  of couse with internet access...then I can stop in and say hi anytime we stop....man I can feel the computer withdrawals setting in   12 hours in a car  no forum? :(  ewwwwwwwwww  maybe if I started this fad I could get rich?    LOL

by J.B. to Brian and Vicky, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: Cindi
I had Ameritech out here for four hours today restoring our phone service. They showed up this morning and just started stringing an new phone line "under ground", on Father's Day! I hate to say it, but maybe this was my gift from the phone company. Anyway, I had to laugh at their timing...poor guys!



I like your idea about computer terminals at rest areas, and it's probably coming soon. Hell, we can't possibly live without computers and cell phones, can we? Life is changing that fast even here in the boonies.



As far as the original question about hypertension; I wish that was my only concern at this point. If you were to read about all the side effects of any AD, you would wonder indeed if any of them were intended to be used by anybody other than someone who intentionally wanted to suffer from depression.  Think about it!  J.B.

by Troxy, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: J.B.
Yes, the patch I am talking about is Duragesic.  I am on 25mcg.

by cindi, Jun 17, 2001 12:00AM
To: JB
hmm  about the Ad....makes us wonder......and cell phones, computers,,,,I can remember what life was like with no microwaves,,,what the heck was a VCR.....we had 3 channels on the TV  that was it so when the president was on  we were screwed....

by Milo, Jun 18, 2001 12:00AM
To: Cindi
I remember when cable TV first came to town...boy, do I feel old!

by cindi, Jun 18, 2001 12:00AM
To: Milo
I think you are younger than me so imagine how old I feel..LOL

by J.B. to Brian and Vicky, Jun 18, 2001 12:00AM
To: Milo and Cindi
I can remember watching Bonanza and Gunsmoke before color T.V.!



We also had a "party line" telephone system in those days. Six other people could and did listen in to everyone's conversations because we were all on the same line. Talk about gossip! Yep, I'm dating myself here, LOL.  J.B.

by cindi, Jun 18, 2001 12:00AM
WOW,,,,I don't remember black and white tv.  maybe I was still little  I was born in 1960....LOL  my neice and nephew had no idea President Reagan was shot...LOL

by cindi, Jun 18, 2001 12:00AM
To: Everyone and anyone interested
well, in about 40 hours I will be leaving....it has been 7 years since I have been on a vacation...I am already having anxiety over driving me and the kids through the mountains of w. virginia...take me home country roads was not on my top 10 list LOL  the Blue Ridge mountains are awesome and majestic to look at but not fall off of....last time i drove the mountains I had to pull over and doug had to drive....i freaked....he laughed at me...i was petrified...now it's just me and the kids following my sister to NC and my sister is not going to be much help if i freak...  that's why my dad is coming to NC to get us and take us to Florida  he is kinda still protective ...i need suggestions on how to get through the mountains...kerrie?  lea?  jenny?  angelica?  anyone who lives out this way?    california won't help..LOL  or maybe it will....you guys have mountains out there don't ya?   anyway  I have something to forwar to you guys   JB, and MILO  please send me your emails if you would and I can sedn you something that will really make you feel old...my addy is ***@****    lea, i don't have yours either....I have the rest...ok get ready for the count down   if i get a chance i will get on later and give you the exact hours and seconds  LOL  i'll bet you can't wait....I can feel your excitement...LOL    Love you all   cin

by jennyfla, Jun 18, 2001 12:00AM
To: Cindi and Milo
Thank you both for your support and for listening to me!

I'm