Just a quick note to say hi!
You deserve a big bear hug!
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today.
Thank you for everything!
Welcome to our community!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hope you feel better soon!
Congratulations! Time for a celebration...
Just wanted to let you know I can relate. If you ever want to talk, you know where to find me.
Meanwhile, use a Anusol HC suppositories twice a day for a few days.
GI-PA
Best of luck!!
P.S. If that doesnt work, try to find an herbalist....ask for INTESTINAL SOOTHE & BUILD AKA UC 3-J I feel great with this treatment, cost $14.00 per 100 pills try it, youll be happy.
ta ta
I came on here to find a bit of information, and ended up reading your comments, i think it may be what i'm looking for.
I'm 18 years old and have trouble going to the loo. when i was young , about 4 years old i had torn my "back passage" while doing my stuff, and was in hostpital for the day to get stitched up.
now when i was about 10 i started having problems again, only this time being that age was way to embarassed to tell anyone even my mother. for about 3 months when going to do my stuff it is absolutely unbearable, but then i have a lucky spell where everythings fine for about a week then the cycle begins again. I'll only go about once every 2-3 days, and pass about 4 days worth, and about 70percent of the time i pass blood. i always have abdominal pain i don't know the exact reason.
its getting to the point where i am scared that because i'm not going to the doctors about it something serious will happen, yet i can't bring myself to go, i've tried mny times.
i've gained weight, i'm tired all the time.
I work on a dairy farm, so with the long hours find it hard to come home and cook healthy meals for myself and b/f.
i read how when you pass blood it dries up and when you go next creates cracks which make it painful, now i'm hoping this is the case with me, as i have never thought of that before, so that way i could maybe fingers crossed treat it myself.
but i would stil appreciate any help of advice from anyone.
from one grown up but scared little girl :)
i still haven't built up the courage to see a doctor yet.
I have been taking laxatives for about 2-3 weeks now and i thought everything was going great i was having bowel movements everyday and they were soft, i was so happy.
The other day i decided to look in the mirror to see if any rips etc were visible..
i burst into tears straight away, my back passage so to speak looks awful.. it looks ripped up and inflammed.. the scary thing for me was it almost looks as if there is no skin there.. i have a pale purple coloured bumpy looking thing covering the hole..
i am so scared... i cry all the time..
my boyfriend keeps asking me what is wrong and i tell him i'm missing my family.. i don't have my mom around and i don't feel comfortable telling my b/f because when i had problems in this area when i was very young i used to get teased sooooooo much and i'm scared he's going to laugh, i think this is why i won't go to the docotrs because i don't want any one to know and suffer the humiliation.
what should i do?