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I'm really sorry to hear your brother is having such a hard time now. I've had Crohn's disease for about 25 years now. so, if you have any specific questions, ask away.
about diet, it's really individualized. for different people, different foods will aggravate the bowel and might worsen symptoms. your best bet is to ask him what he thinks he can tolerate and make it available. prepare it ahead of time if needed. when you get that sick, even opening a can and microwaving things get to be too much.
everyone pretty much has to develop thier own 'no-no' list. but, some general things that usually work are: no alcohol, no caffeine, no fried foods and a low residue diet. a low-residue diet is pretty much what it sounds like, foods that result in a small amount of stool. things like rice, pasta, fresh poultry, eggs, noodle soups, tuna, mashed potatoes. think of a child's BRAT diet (bananas, rice, applesauce and toast). roughage is tough, so no salads, etc. but really ripe fruit (or canned) without the skins might be ok.
if he is to the point that he is having trouble tolerating all foods, then a liquid diet is probably his best bet. there are lots liquid nutritional drinks available these days (Ensure, Boost, etc). Nestle makes a product called Modulen that is designed especially for IBD folks, but the flavor packets do have artificial sweetners in it. Boost, etc do have regular sugar in them, so if sugar is causing him problems, then he is probably better off getting prescription liquid supplements. it's really important to stay hydrated, so whatever fluids he can get down will help. the sports drinks are good, but again, the sugar might be a problem. popscicles, water ice, herbal teas, OJ, broth are all good.
being sick, being a guy and being 19 are going to make it tough for him to accept or ask for help. try not to push it. he has so little control over his life right now, he might really resent it.
take care,
You may also wish to seek out a face-to-face support group in your area for your brother. Crohn's disease has one of the largest support group networks in the US (assuming that is where you are), and they can be very valuable sources of information from people who have "been there done that", as well as a great source of emotional support. There are also a number of internet-based support groups for Crohn's, which you should be able to find by doing a Yahoo search for the key words Yahoo Support Groups.
Best wishes,
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