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alaysha Female, 21 years Provo - UT Member since Feb 2007
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I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. I've had 3 blighted ova so I know how you feel.
My docs recommend having a D&C. Apparently 1 out of 5 times you'll end up needing one anyway.
For me, it helps me move on. I can't imagine waiting for it.
Good luck, and sorry again.
I think you should do what you feel is right in your heart. I too had a blighted Ova when I was 10 weeks w/ my first pregnancy. When I found out the Dr. gave me the choice. He sent me home with the pills to take or if I felt like waiting it out he was ok with that too. He didn't feel D&C was necessary for me since the baby didn't develope. I chose to wait (I had a wedding to attend that weekend) From the day I first spotted it took an additional week before I miscarried (I continued to spot that week). I was at work and started to feel cramps, it was just like contractions to me, they would start then stop, then start then stop. Finaly when I made it home I started to bleed more heavey and within a few hours it was over. I did shed the sac it was grey like, and was different than the regular blood clots. This happened to me March 06 and I am still happy to day that I waited it out. I think if it happened again I would do the same. Although every pregnancy is different so It all depends on your feelings at that time. Go with what your heart tells you. Best wishes to you, I am sorry for your not so good news. Keep your chin up and keep your thoughts positive.
I have since had another miscarriage and still TTC....hoping this month might be a bright one.