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Infant Napping and Eating Schedules

by starblue332, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
I have been following Dr. Weisbluth's sleep schedules, and it is finally working, but I was wondering if anyone else used his methods and how they fit feedings in?  Do I schedule his feedings around the naps or what?
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by jifnif, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
well i don't follow his book per say but my ds takes two naps a day...he usually has a bottle after his first nap and his second nap usually comes after his 2nd bottle.  my ds is in daycare though and they always give a bottle at 9:30 and 1:30.  The lil ones usually nap around the same times.  when i am at home i stick close to the bottle time but i let nap times fluctuate a bit.  in the car he always sleeps more, or if we are walking in a stroller.  sorry if that doesn't help.  

by tomel, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
Is that Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Baby? If so I followed his method with my first son. I would just feed him in the morning and before and after the first and second nap and then obviously at night. Once he slept thru the night I didnt worry about night feedings. But I would think if your baby is still really young and your nursing you could wake him for a feeding or 2. I think he talks about that in his book, I cant remember it's been so long.

by Me2mommy2b, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
I followed DD's schedule.  I'm one of those who doesn't believe in strict schedules so I let her guide me.  We have a schedule now more or less but for the first 4 months there was no schedule at all.

by starblue332, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
That helps a lot!  Thanks.  Yes that is the right book.  He is 6 months old now, and didnt have much of a schedule until recently.  So if he wakes up at 6 and takes naps at 9 and 1 when would I feed him?

by mom627, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
I never followed a set schedule with my son - we followed his cues and he formed his own pattern after about 4-5 months.  We give him a bottle BEFORE his naps and bedtime, as he usually falls asleep while eating or shortly thereafter.  We're trying to break him of this, as he's nearly a year, but it sure is tough to change something that works like clockwork!  He wakes around 7, goes down around 9 for 2 hours, stays up until about 3 PM, then is down for another 2 hours and is up till bed time.

Sometimes we'll put him in his crib awake and he'll cry for a few minutes then fall asleep.  My husband is much better at this than I am, as I can't stand for him to cry!

Good luck.

by neparker, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
I'm not familiar with any of those... could someone please explain. Thanks.

by tomel, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
To: starblue
I think at 6 months you probably dont need the night feedings,especially if the baby is sleeping thru the night.
Once your little one hits the toddler yrs. you will be so grateful for having a good sleep routine.
When we did the book with my son it worked awesome. Still to this day (he is 4 1/2) he sleeps great thru the night. He took naps up until about age 4. It's true what he says in the book the more sleep they get the more they sleep.

by tomel, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
To: starblue
Sorry in answer to your other question. Again it has been so long for me. I would think if he is up at 6 feed him then of course. Then mabye if he is hungry feed him before that first nap at 9 then when he wakes up. I guess whenever you feel he is hungry in between. I would think he would be starting solids soon. So he would eat brekfast, lunch, dinner just like you do with bottle/breast in between.
Sorry if I am not much help. I am gona have to relearn all this stuff again myself in about 9 weeks. I plan on reading the book over again.
Look in the book again and see if he mentions anything about this.
I guess as long as you know he is full and your breast is emptied when you nurse and he is gaining weight then all is good.

by tomel, Jun 12, 2007 12:00AM
To: neparker
The book is called Healthy Sleep Habits Happy Baby. Basically it teaches the parent how to get the child in a good sleep routine. If someone has a child (after about 3 months of age or so) that cant fall asleep on their own the parents let the child cry in small time increments, in other words going in and comforting them every 5 then 10 then 15mins. and so on.
The author talks about the importance of sleep in small children. How their naps should be at home (not in the car or at Target). They should take 2 naps during the day and get to bed early at night.
With my son he would take a nap at around 10AM another at 1PM and would be down between 6 or 7 at night and up at 6 in the morning. The author talks about sleep cycles and stages of development. How important it is and the more sleep a child gets the more they will sleep, not the opposite of what alot of people think. In other words keeping up a child until 10 at night will make them sleep longer, it is the complete opposite.

by starblue332, Jun 13, 2007 12:00AM
yes he gets solids.  i only give them to him at night...if i do 3 times a day wouldnt that mean hes not getting enough brestmilk?  its hard to tell when hes hungry now that he mouths everything.  it seems like its harder than it should be for me

by tomel, Jun 13, 2007 12:00AM
To: starblue
Again I would say if your breast is emptied and he is not fussy then I think your good. Also if he is gaining weight.
As long as he seems content then I'm sure he is fine.
Do you have any breastfeeding resources or books? Look and see at what stages how much they should still be nursing. I dont think they nurse as often once they are a certain age and are on solids. Of course I have seen some moms that let kids that are walking even go to the breast whenever they feel like it, like contantly. So it all depends on your own approach.

It also sounds like he is sleeping good, so that another good sign.
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