Best antidepressant for ruminative thinking
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i have a 4 yr. old and i feel like every move she makes is a reflection on me. things get worse in the fall/winter months due to weather and holiday obligations (which i like to avoid at all costs).
thanks for the help in advance!
no, i dont worry about my health or anything like that, i worry all the time about events and how others feel. i am constantly trying to please everyone (and this happens especially around the holidays).if we dont see this family member they'll be upset. or, if we dont make an appearance here they'll think that. i mean, i try to do it all and its exhausting. i get stressed and always (daily) play a movie in my head of how it will go or what people will say. i know i am a perfectionist and worry about people judging me whether it be something i say or do. as i stated before, i would rather do something that i dont want to do in order to please others or because its the right thing to do. i miss out on many things that i would rather be doing. i dont know, its hard to explain but i just dont know how to stop all this going through my head and just relax. right now im obsessing about thanksgiving. im already worrying about that. planning is a nightmare because we have the inlaws, and my parents. trying to work out times so it meets everyones expectations (w. a 4yr old) stresses me out.
my daughters birthday is in dec. and because im planning it, im nervous about the turn-out as well. will people have fun? will it go well?
i dont know if this is social anxiety disorder or what? i dont like crowds, i feel as if i walk into a room im being stared at, i dont like critisism, i feel like im being judged, at events/gatherings, my heart races and i get clammy. im a mess!
i talked it over with my obgyn when i went for my appt. (she delivered my baby) and prescribed xanax. i HATE taking even asprin but i just want to be calm and not worry so much about others. thanks again for your input.i better get out the louise hey books again. do you live in aruba? its the happy island!
you are exactly right in saying people who bad mouth or critisize are unhappy with their own lives. also when people say negative things its usually how they are feeling about themselves. ya know, i can rationalize things, know where it all stems from, read self help books and so on but it still doesnt stop that excessive thinking. i called my dr.yesterday to switch from xanax to lorezipams. how do you like the xanax?
The FDA allowed Eli Lilly to use “placebo washout” to test for the efficacy of prozac.After an initial 1-2 weeks ,people responding positively to a placebo were withdrawn from the trail.This purposely creates an unnatural pool of patients and makes the drug perform better statistically.It is unscientific.
A requirement for FDA