Waking Up from Coma After Brain Tumor Surgery
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He had been progressing well, was walking with help, was eating in the cafeteria, and was speaking and reacting appropriately to conversation, though still somewhat confused about things. He had become cantankerous with the rehabilitation center staff, which I saw as actually a positive thing. They were working him hard in rehab, with new things every day. We were looking for a nursing home for a temporary stay, with a goal of bringing him home with day-time nursing help.
Then he became lethargic, and was taken back to the hospital for diagnosis. His initial lung X-ray was clear, but they diagnosed him with pneumonia supposedly caused by his tracheotomy. I could never get a nurse or doctor to really answer me about where the pneumonia was -- maybe just in his throat? He was still talking and responding, but he had a fever.
He was given IV fluids and antibiotics, and appeared to recover in a couple of days: only a slight fever, and sputum clear. But the nurses told us he had also developed a staph infection from the trach. He was unconscious most of the time, and a CT scan revealed that there was still residual fluid in the area were he had had his subdural hematoma (which is really not unexpected -- though they told it to my mother-in-law as though it was surprising). Some information we received secondhand from the nurses indicated that perhaps the amount of fluid might have been increasing.
He was not on a ventilator.
It was becoming difficult to get solid information -- the doctors seemed mostly unavailable or too busy. I think they had already written him off at this point.
A new doctor, a social worker, and a chaplain met two days in a row with my mother-in-law to convince her to remove his hydration and abdominal feeding tube. He was still responding, opening his eyes, asking for help, mouthing questions and comments, scrawling questions about "secondary" infections on a clipboard (he had been a pharmacist and was very knowledgable), and responding in mild mock outrage when we told him that his grandson had taken over his favorite chair.
The "team" told my mother-in-law that he would "never fully recover," and that she ought to withdraw supportive care. They gave her a folder of documentation about good death, the importance of dehydration to dying well, etc. Since he had a living will that said that if he were terminal or unresponsive, there should be no extraordinary measures taken, they convinced her to execute those provisions.
The antibiotic was stopped, all monitoring was removed, and no further fluids or foods were given. He was given morphine, and within 24 hours had became nonresponsive. Within 3 days he was dead.
With the staph infection and pneumonia (claimed to be still there), and some additional symptoms like some mild swelling in the legs, perhaps he truly was terminal.
I can't say if it was wrong or right to stop the supportive care.
But I am pretty sure it was premature.
Rest in peace Walter.