Fatique & pain
This forum is for questions and support regarding neurology issues such as:
Alzheimer's Disease,
ALS,
Autism, Brain Cancer,
Cerebral Palsy, Chronic Pain,
Epilepsy,
Fibromyalgia, Headaches, MS, Neuralgia, Neuropathy, Parkinson's Disease, RSD, Sleep Disorders,
Stroke, Traumatic Brain Injury

Before you buy into the hooey about no tests confirming the existence of that condition either, your research is seriously out of date! There is now an international consensus criteria that has been adopted (the US CDC is a little slow on this) that you can look up online, just google for Canadian Consensus Criteria ME/CFS.
Commonly run tests like CBC, etc. turn up normal in the CFS patient. However, sometimes MRI will show non-specific lesions. PET scans and SPECT scans are sometimes abnormal. Viral titers for EBV, CMV, and/or HHV-6 are often out of range, along with other illnesses that the healthy person's immune system normally holds in check. Immune system abnormalities are common, such as low NK cell activity and counts, and something wrong with an RNaseL pathway (some immune system thing I don't understand). Frequently, cardiac abnormalities are found -- tachycardias, etc. These clearly are not normal test results.
It is true that there is still no single test that can definitively indicate ME/CFS. Everything else should still be ruled out, like MS or Lupus. (Which, by the way, at one point MS wasn't thought to be a "real" disease either because nobody knew the test for it. Just ask the people suffering from it if it was real!)
The tests I mentioned, taken together with symptoms, then lead to a diagnosis of ME/CFS. The frustrating thing then is finding doctors who know how to treat it and help you feel better.
It is worth noting that I have no medical background or training whatsoever. As always, trust a doctor and not some anonymous person on the internet. But please get up-to-date with your understanding of the current research on CFS and fibromyalgia, especially since you work in the medical field. Experts have long been saying that the debate over whether these are organic illnesses is over.
Waterlilly
I am a woman 54 years old, suffering from Arthritis, Rheumatism, Tendonitis, and now doctors say Fibromyalgia.
My symptoms are: When reaching for something, or banging my arms, I have immediately muscle cramps soo bad this morning i cried, i feel helpless to think that i will have to live the rest of my life in pain. I have been a preschool teacher for 15 yrs. Children are my life. I cant see myself not being able to do my job like i want and should.
Besides the problem in my arms, my hips, shoulders, legs have arthritis in them. I have constant pain in the flat of my back., problably due to my spine which bone density scans have diagnosed with Osteosporosis, I would like to know if anyone else has pains like mine and what are they doing about it? I wake up stiff and sore every morning. I look young still but my bones my doctor say are like an old football players bones. Help me if u can. Thank you.
I don't know the reference to "ME"/CFS. Is that myalgic encephalitis? British or European nomenclature? I do know that CFS here in the US is going by CFIDS (Chronic Fatigue Immune-Dysfunction Syndrome), but has been exploring a new, better name.
I agree that some research online to the more traditional research sites will help ease your doubt. I, too, practiced medicine during the "chronic mono", "yuppie flu", "chronic