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legal16
Nov 03
I have been following you in the HIV anxiety group forums and signed up to this site to say thank you so much for your encouraging words and insight.  
I have been a disaster for a few weeks now and getting my test results in two days (5 months after contact) and it can't come fast enough.  
Besides you, the Internet and my mind getting the best of me have been worst enemies during this time.  It's been a rough ride, but your journals and knowledge have made me feel slightly more confident for the next couple days until I know for sure.
Thanks again.
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Nicegirlscared
Oct 18
Thank you for creating the HIV anxiety support group. I just joined. It does help.
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ChitChatNine
Oct 12
Welcome to our community!
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jstupid
Sep 04
Hello joggen! just a quick question hope you dont mind..just a an anxiety driven question. I took the OraQuick advance test (saliva) and  I collected the saliva only from  the incide of the upper lip. I heard that you need to collect it from both upper and lower lip. do you think it matters and will change my results? which were negative by the way.
thank you in advance and sorry to bother you.
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scaredandneedhelp
Aug 29
sry that i keep asking these paranoid questions but i just really care about my family and i dont want to put them in risk so thank you very much for your inputs but just please understand im just desperate for help.
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lulolarna
Aug 28
thank you again for you messages! the doctor had told me only that they would contact me in 10 days to see how im doing so i hope its all ok. x
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jstupid
Aug 26
Hi,i saw that you asked if someone wants to volunteer on the HIV prevention forum, i really would like to!
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rollerdevil
Aug 06
joggen .. mate you are doing a great job.. could you please advise me so that i can start living my life normally.. this is my worry..
i went to have a massage.. no sex.. no oral sex.. no fingering.. no kissing..
the girl sat over my back and buttocks (she was naked)  and was massaging my back with oil..
now my question is.. can i be infected if her vaginal liquids fall on any of the pimple/boil i have on my back..
mostly i scratch my back. and the pimple/boil break often..
please advise..
Dr HHH,Teak,Lizzie and Dr Frascino have told me that i dont have anything to worry..
also my local hiv expert(he is a hiv lab researcher) told that i cant be infected ..
if you can assure me that i am safe.. i can sleep in peace..

Your mate.
Harry..
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scaredbeyondbelief226
Aug 06
hi joggen, thank you for your reply, it was very reassuring i found this article and figured you would be interested in it
http://www.medsci.ox.ac.uk/gazette/previousissues/56vol1/Part13
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scaredbinow
Aug 05
Dear Joggen - Thank you for your reply, how can I stop worrying and stop imagining things! Since Im low risk or no risk at all - should I test now after 6 weeks
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ConcernMan
Aug 03
Dear joggen. Sorry about the posts. I did not know I was called spamming. I'm just here seeking and helping others. Also it is not helpful telling others they have zero risks when something sure is going on with strip clubs and/or massage parlors. Thanks.
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maddy800
Jul 31
well joggen you say external fluids can not infect..... once it is out HIV dies quickly or it is host... let me explain it to you some health care provider got infected through blood splashes on their eyes.. what you say?... most people here say that HIV dies quickly outside body,, even the fluids are present... am totally confused... some expert says it can be alive for more than 7 days in dried state.... am really afraid ... because an HIV fluid touched my penis... later i master batted my self in my underwear.. after two weeks now i have mild fever and sore throat... plz give me a answer... do not neglect plz plz  
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maddy800
Jul 29
Hi joggen please access my risk... two weeks ago my friend hand sex with a prostitute, after that i went by the time she slept... i kissed her face and pressed her breast and took her hand and kept on my penis... i had precum from my penis, she din't do anything, later i masterbatted my self on my underwear......... after two weeks,,, now i had fever and sore throat.... any risk ( assuming that she wiped her vaginal fluids) please answer my question
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CrazykC
Jul 29
Welcome to our community!
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horace696
Jul 10
hi ...is this private?
appreciate your response to my concern.  what makes you say it isn't ars?  Also do u think an hiv test after 8 weeks is accurate? thanks
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roamingrover
Jun 23
did go through your journal was encouraging.
can ya please read my problem on the community forum & suggest accordingly.
will appreciate it very much.
am stressed waiting for the 12 the week to come!!
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boondock
Jun 21
hey man.  thanks for your help with that one poster.  i don't know how you, teak and lizzie do it.  its frustrating sometimes.
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punkiecanada
May 09
just wanted to say thank you for your reassuring words in this very difficult time for me.
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davidbrent
Apr 29
hi, have you got msn messanger? i agree with you that testing under the circumstances is unessacary, i would like to discuss this further with you if thats ok with you?
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chintuu
Apr 27
Thank you very much.. May God bless you and give long life..

I was just worried as I had read somewhere that HIV virus are alive in the air for few/minutes/hours..

My only worry was my penis would have touched someones semen (passed few minutes back) and would have gone inside my penis.. i am only worried about that..

thanks for your patience..
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man007586
Apr 25
Thank you for everything!
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cedarlee
Apr 23
by scientific criteria, that woman is HIV-free, or at least was HIV-free on the day when i had unprotected sex with her,right?
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Needassurance123
Apr 18
Thank you for everything!
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donzi16
Apr 11
thank you for your help
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nervouse
Mar 07
Just a quick note to say hi!

I read your debate with Teak about synthetic vs natural condoms what aboout. I thouht this debate came from my post where I had a few other question that niether answered.

Risk of other STD's by oral on a woman?

Please your thought. I am very nervouse not sure when or if I should get tested
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George790
Mar 01
Thanks for all your advise. When I went to get tested the doctor even told me that there is only a slight chance of me getting effected with hiv. However, he advised me that regardless of the results of the test (I should get them this week) I should go back 3 months later for another test. By the way, when I went for a blood test (5 days after the incident), he also took blood for other STDs.
Question: Is it too early to detect other STD's besides hiv in such a short time from the time of the exposure?
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hpp
04/08
I had a similar experience to you, with a sore throat, white coating, and raised anxiety levels (caused by the virus). Pins and needles in the legs also.  Full details are here on my blog:

http://chronicsorethroat.wordpress.com/

Post a comment on my blog if you want to chat.
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