Nov 20
Just a quick note to say hi! WAIT, not sure what name you knew me by....redneckgirl,,,or what.....anyway i am dixie from california......long time no talk
Nov 20
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today. i got back on here. gone for a while. HOW ARE YOU????
HOPE TO HERE FROM YOU..lots has been happening. how about you and yours. I AM BACK ON, LETS TALK.
Aug 01
Just a quick note to say hi!
Hi there,
I was just doing my mood tracker and saw you at bottom of page. Hope you don't mind me writing to you?.
I wondered what medicine you took for BiPolar??.
And that is very good for you that you go to the Gym,good for you mind and raises your happy indorphines.
I have a small trampoline that I jump on when I can, I enjoy it.
I do a bit of walking round my wee village. It rains a lot here.
Could I add you to be my friend?
Bye for now.
Jun 01
Congratulations! Time for a celebration...!! Glad you are feeling so good!!
May 06
Happy Mother's Day to you also. Hope you have fun and the sun is shining for you. This is a pretty flower to add to our gardens!!
May 06
Just a quick note to say hi!
The officer was here this morning and everything is sorted at last. Phew.
How are you?
Apr 30
Just a quick note to say hi!
Hi, ta for your pop in and your encouragement too. It hasn't been easy today. Got a letter stating that I'd be eviction within seven days if I don't call them for an appointment to access the gas applicances fitting, I didn't feel very comfortable to letting anyone in. The last person was here about a year ago.
I didn't read anyone's news or yours too... however I hope you are keeping well and many thanks for keeping in touch. :-)
Apr 11
I'm sending you a flower, so that you can enjoy it! Roses are my favorite. They haven't bloomed yet, but they are looking good. Been wondering how you have been doing. Hope everything is going well for you. Have a nice Easter.
Mar 24
I am glad to be here for you. Thanks for the smiley heart. That is very sweet of you.
Mar 05
Congratulations! U stick it out & let him tak care of it no matter what.If he tries ignoring it,waitin 4 u,don't touch it.He will probably play that game or act like he cant figure it out,ignore him.U hav 2 hold ur ground.We figure it out,so can he.U need enjoyment time.Do u give children chores on a daily basis? If not,I would.Cleaning etc,takes a lot of time.More hands is a great help.U will hav more free time, 4 u. It should b that way.We did not marry the house,every1 that lives there should take part n takin care of the place they live,not just 1.I say sometimes,"do I have maid stamped on my head"?You live here,you work.Hope everything goes good.U will feel much beter once u get them straight! Crack that whip!!! U can go on strike!! Labor unions you know!! Take Care, Kep N Touch,RJ
Mar 03
Mary,I know just how you feel about taking that few minutes to take care of the thing that we know should be done.But,they depend on that very thing.They will purposely let it sit,knowing u will take it if they ignore it long enough.U just have 2 out- wait him.If he bumbles it,just turn away & let him deal with the consequences.He will appreciate u doing it 25 years once he gets a taste of what it is like.If the lights go out,cable,or anything else,he will get embarrassed.If he fusses just tell him,it's not my job & go about ur business,knowing u won the battle! It is stressfull &u hav 2 start gettin rid of 1 thing at a time that caused u the stress that has gotten u down.U hav enough 2 deal with as it is.I wish u the best on this and keep me up on how it is workin 4 u How r u feelin 2day
Mar 02
Hope you feel better soon! RJ
Mar 01
You deserve a big bear hug! Hi Mary, Hope you are feeling better. We are having a big snow storm and lights keep going out.Last time it was a week before they came back on.This is the 3rd time I have gotten to this site. Take Care and talk to you soon. RJ
Feb 25
Thanks Your help is greatly appreciated.It looks like it is going to take some work trying to get this young man to think ahead.He is really a good kid and I want to help him, but of course I've got to convince him he needs to prepare for the future.He just wants to get a job and on his own. I'm working on him though. How are you doing? Read your journal, sounds as though you are hanging in there.So you went for the hair thing! I do that. Need to go now, but waiting a while.Want to see about getting a perm.My hair is straight as a stick,actually,straighter. RJ
Feb 22
Thank you for everything! Your info is helpful,gives me some direction as it has been many years since mine were in school and I did not deal with one with a disability.I have to sit him down and have a serious talk about it, to help him to desire to graduate.If I can convince him how badly he needs his diploma, then I will work on the other things.I may need to get some advice from you time to time on some proceedures to help him.Sometimes the schools don't inform you of everything.I will talk to Social Services through.With his own problems and living through what he has, then the breakup, I would not have done so good either.Hopefully the love he gets from my husband and me and my youngest son, he will come around.Take Care and Thanks again for the help. RJ
Feb 20
Thanks,I am hanging in there,old bones don't like cold weather,but then I have always liked the spring the best of all.My youngest son, and my grandson are with us now.My grandson will soon be 18, but has not finished school.He is out right now from missing time, but had I been in his situation,I would not have cared either.We are trying to get him to go back to school for his diploma.He is sight impaired,so I am hoping to get help for him.He needs extra help in spelling and reading.I am going to the school to see if I can get access to some materials that may encourage him to stay in school and graduate.If things work out he will start back next fall and maybe get some summer classes this summer.Take Care, RJ
Feb 18
Thanks for your kind note on my journal. Hope things are going better for you. RJ
Feb 11
Thinking about you and wondering how you are doing. RJ
Feb 02
Congratulations! Time for a celebration... You are doing great on your non smoking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just hang in there!!
Feb 01
I was looking at your note to me. You did say there had been no real disasters with your daughter? RJ
Feb 01
Thanks, I'm still not doin the best.I don't no what the deal is with my bac.I laid down, was going to rest,but I got to hurting so bad, I had to get up. I told my husband if I was still feeling like this, I'm calling my dr monday.It is like I never got the shots,accept the pressure from the meds aggitated it in the beginning.Both of my hips ache.My husband did the floors,dishes and washed clothes.It is really getting on my nerves. I have things I want to do,but,I'm trying to be careful not to cause more problems.You must miss your daughter since she has been gone a while now.Glad their hasn't been any problems.She may suprise you and do well. I haven't been on here much lately.I was sitting up,brushing my dog(maltese with the full long hair to the floor),thought I'd check out MH. take care
Jan 28
Congratulations! Time for a celebration...A LATE HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!! I saw the date on one of your journals. You know they say women are like fine wine, the older they get the better they are. Good gracious, I'm going to be going over another hill before too long. I broke the wine bottle. Now I crawl over the hills. I used to walk those hills, but after so many, it was easier to crawl. lol
Jan 27
A nice sunny smiley face 4 you! Glad u r back.Sory bout weather.I had my ocean waves goin,couldn't find u either.Most likely it was cause of the sno man suit! I couldn't c or move.I melted when the tide came n.I looked like the little boy on Christmas Story n his snow suit! It was good u got away & relaxed.We may hav ice & snow here.I hope not.I got my shots Thursday.This time they hav taken longer 2 get 2 point of benefit.I hav spent lot of time n bed.I tried not 2 tak pain med cause afraid I would make it worse.I finally started taking them because of the pain.They say sometimes it takes a week.My son is hanging in there.We started collecting info for the court.Sum way the Wicked Witch got wind she was goin 2 have a fight on her hands & got a message to him she wanted a no fault divorce.
Jan 26
Just a quick note to say hi! thanks for the hug. and yes i have an acheing back. but also have a little money in the pocket too. and thats nice. its a challange for me to clean someone elses house. and stay on track. they want me 3 days a week from 9:30 - late, like tonite they had guest over and i was needed to stay to clean up dinner and kitchen. but HEY i get to eat free.. I HOPE ALL IS WELL FOR YOU. let me know how you are feeling. i am a little down but OK my daughter is in a homeless shelter now. but its all about choices. RIGHT? my medicine was not in the mail today, sure hope its there tomorrow or i will get sick/depressed. HEY i am going to Santa Cruz, CA thrus-saturday to a prayer conference and i love the ocean, growing up Santa Cruz was were we went every summer.
Jan 16
Thanks 4 the wel wishes on my shots.I saw my dr 2day.He said how r u felin?I said,ready 4 shots! I told him I stopd doin much bendin or putin any stres on my bac.He said that was good more stress is more problms.I go next Thursday morning.It hurts when meds stop 4 the procedur,but well worth it.Told u I needed 2 trade it n 4 20yr old!With a warranty!U hav a good relaxation time.Wish I culd b there,it sure sounds nice.I have a sound machine for slepin,think I'll turn it on the seashore sounds.Then I can shut my eyes and pretend I'm sleepin on the beach!! Usualy I lisen 2 rainfall,husban uses beach til I come 2 bed.
Jan 16
You deserve a big bear hug! I c how ur daughter is worryin u.I guess part is motherhood too.The mothering never leaves us no matter how old they r.The "haunting", I relate 2.I hav ben interested 2 no bout how counselor is going 2 help with that.I red 1 of ur journals bout that.There was sum1 else interested n it also. Part of mine I think is insecurities.Sum I hav ovrcome 4 myself,but 4 others,such as my children,I haven't.It is good ur gettin away.I no u said u had ur daugter comitted plenty of times.When I was comitted against my will,they scared me 2 death,from the mean treatment of the officer from the beginning as well as other reasons.She knows what is ahed which probably takes away fear,so it has made it harder 2 deal with her.Hav fun on ur trip.U earned it&sure dserve it Tak care
Jan 11
Just a quick note to say hi! looks like i am repeating myself....about the party and cookoff anyway i think being so cold I have a brain freeze. so sorry for the repeat. anyway cant wait till i get my new heating and cooling system. i have no landlord i am it. i own the house so i only can complain to me..HOW ARE YOU. hey did i tell you that i have a small job cleaning a house. yep that will help pay this new bill. and 2 other days i watch my great great nephew. its fun
ok by
Jan 11
Just a quick note to say hi!
Jan 11
Just a quick note to say hi! OK so thursday nite 6 of us "girls" got together at my house and that felt good in its self
I HAD COMPANY!!! AND we watched a movie, eat, talked ,laughed, shared, and just enjoyed each other company.
learned about each other and what we would like to do next month. actually it doesnt matter to any of us just that we will have a set date each month to do something. I know the numbers will grow but now it is kinda intimate. last nite my one friend came back over and we cooked chili beans for a church chili cook off for todays lunch after church service. it was fun.
dont know who won yet there were 13 of us that entred. DID I TELL YOU that my house heater is broken and will not be replaced till tuesday. its cold, I know that GOD is taking me somewhere .
Jan 09
Just a quick note to say hi! that is so great about the bowling. did i tell you that my daughter and niece took me bowling new years day..yep had not bowled in 40 years...he he. it was a blast.. HEY last nite 5 girls friends came over and met each other and we had fun talking, a movie, eating, snacking, and just good ol fun. and two of them are comming over tonite again for a PJ party to finish the movies...he he lol so heres to a new year.. I JOINED A NEW WEB SITE CALLED
PICKET FENCES FOR DIVORCE RECOVERY. meeting new friends. i am trying everything i know to get up. HEY AND
sunday a friend and i are in the chili cook off at church will keep you posted if we win...lol by thanks for your friendship
Jan 09
Hi Mary,The birthday blahs,you are still young,I'm breathing on the big 60! My son turned 35 on the 8th (my baby!),daughter 39 on 29th,and oldest a grand 41 in April!! Next month I'm 59.I past the blahs. Happy Birthday to You!! I'm going to the auto body shop & c if I can get an overhaul or trade in on the body!! I'm looking for a 20yr old trade in! I want a warranty with mine!The warranty on the one I have has run out & the parts r breaking down! I need disc work in a much needed way. The bod does not want to work and the motor whines like it is in agoney.I'm taking it to the mechanic nxt week and setting up the disc work 2 c if the whining stops! I sure hope so cause the pain is killing me.The shots work great.I have never ben happy to get shots b4.Take care and have a Great Birthday!