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Just a quick note to say hi!
You deserve a big bear hug!
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today.
Thank you for everything!
Welcome to our community!
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hope you feel better soon!
Congratulations! Time for a celebration...
Happy Birthday!
961574 tn?1505958942
03/14
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today.
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1163388 tn?1337111559
07/13
Hey, cool. I hope you have a lot of fun. I always see charlotte getting so big in the pics. Time really doesn't stand still.
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1163388 tn?1337111559
06/13
Hi, just this morning I was telling Vantom about my decision to give Talisha a sibling. but I am taking this one easy. I am not going with the same zeal I did the last time. If it happens it happens.
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1186852 tn?1423663970
06/13
Just a quick note to say hi! Thanks... :) so I see lottie will have a sibling in the future, that's something to look forward to, happy 4 u! Xx
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961574 tn?1505958942
11/12
Thank you for the nice words for the twins :o). I think they are quite cute too
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1186852 tn?1423663970
09/12
Hey love! How u and little Charlotte-Mae doing?! How did the christening go? I saw pics,... So beautiful! :) x
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1706625 tn?1343065313
08/12
baptism same day?? thats sweet <3
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1002983 tn?1349825686
07/12
There were so many similarities with us weren't there?  And now we have our precious girls!  Thankfully, Marietta has picked up & I only had to supplement with forumla for a couple of days.  Her second jaundice test had gone up, but not high enough to go in for treatment.  She's woken for feeds & is feeding well at the breast now.  Her weight is 6lbs 3ozs now, so we're pleased with that!  She had a dreadful night last night though, didn't sleep until 5am.  Kept crying, I kept feeding, she'd sleep in my arms, then cry really hard when I put her in the bassinette!  I had such a headache but I know from experience this can be quite normal!  She's slept really well Saturday night!  Hoping for some sleep tonight!  Big hugs to you & Charlotte Mae!!  XOXOXO
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1002983 tn?1349825686
06/12
Thanks dear Clare! I know, 3hrs, although it was still awful!  Constant pain & I wondered how I'd ever get her out!  She weighed 6lbs 15ozs, my heaviest, but today she'd gone down to 6lbs. She's slightly jaundiced & really tired, so isn't feeding so well, so I'm having to supplement her feeds with formula until she picks up. Giovanni had to have phototherapy for his jaundice, so I'm hoping Marietta doesn't have to go back to hospital for that!  Depends on her weight tomorrow, & whether they do a second blood test for the jaundice.  Your little lady is so, so sweet!  She looks really smiley!  Aren't we so fortunate now, finally with our gorgeous babies?  Big hugs to you & Lottie!!!  XOXOXO
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1002983 tn?1349825686
06/12
Wow, you've lost 3 stone!  Great going!  I love seeing the pics of your princess!  She is just gorgeous & you have your looking so, so beautiful, plus she looks so happy!  No wonder, having you as her mama!!!!  Big hugs to you & your lovely family XOXOX
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1366197 tn?1394590911
05/12
Congratulations! Happy birthday baby girl!!
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1186852 tn?1423663970
03/12
Hey babe, how's things going?! Hows little miss Charlotte?x
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
How are you doing my dear?  All OK?  I cannot believe things are getting sooooooo close!!  I am super excited for & Charlotte.  I'm 26wks on Monday & see my OB the same day.  Have to register at the hospital on April 3 too, then we're off on holiday from April 10-18.  I'm posting your present this week, so look out for it.  I'll let you know when it should reach you.  Hugs to you & your hunnie girl!!!  XOXOXO
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1163388 tn?1337111559
03/12
You deserve a big bear hug! I hope things work out for you. i wish you could fully enjoy the pregnancy without this distraction, your in my thoughts
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1767465 tn?1336416547
03/12
Just a quick note to say hi!  you can do it alone.. and you have all of us... i know its easier said than done but you will find strength and you will be stronger for it in the long run... try not to stress and keep your head up sweetie... ive been there so i know exactly what your goin through...
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296076 tn?1371338074
03/12
so sorry, you can do it.  make sure you get the stuff you need for him to pay child support.  Be strong when you can.  You can make it on your own so many of us do
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1186852 tn?1423663970
03/12
Just like u said love, his loss!! You should apply for income support because you are unable to work due to pregnancy, which means you'll be entitled to the maternity grant. They wont expect u to work. Any help with that side of things i can give, just ask away! You'll get there :) x
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1186852 tn?1423663970
03/12
You deserve a big bear hug! Sorry things didnt work out! But you'll be ok, Charlotte wont go without. Being on benefits suck (i was on them for a few years) but you'll be ok! There's alot of help out there, just make sure u accept it! I know you'll have your friends around you.x
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
It's an old cliche, but this truly is HIS loss. I honestly don't know what some men want. Please sort out the housing. Do you have a friend to stay with in Torquay while doing that?  You will have the most wonderful miracle in your arms in just a few weeks, & once you see you, you  know you will have the strength to move rivers & mountains to protect & provide for her! All that matters right now is YOU & CHARLOTTE. Do I still send the gift to James' mother or somewhere in Torquay?  Hugs & love to you dear friend!  XOXOXO
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
Oh Clare, I'm so sorry. Really. Do you have support in Torquay?  You're a great person & I'm sure you have people who love you & will help. Single motherhood will be kinder to you & Charlotte than sticking in a marrigae not working. Don't be hard on yourself. The benefit is there for people who need it & you will need it. You can't work & look after your little girl, so don't feel any guilt whatsoever, PLEASE!
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1901977 tn?1333995326
03/12
All you need to do is love her like crazy, and the rest will come. Everybody hits their lows, you'll make it work. If you need another single mom to talk to across the ocean, let me know.
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296076 tn?1371338074
03/12
so very sad...  stay strong I give you  hugs
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1186852 tn?1423663970
03/12
Youre not being unreasonable when u say u want him to cut contact, i think ALL women would want that if they were to work at things. You cant have that worry in your back of your head all the time, its gunna b hard enough as it is to try and forgive and move on. Him continuing a friendship with her will only hinder your chances at getting back on track! Surely he must understand your reasons... Men are so clueless sometimes!! I believe if he truly wants things to work out, he would do anything to try and make it easier! After all, your his wife! And you're carrying his baby... Dont back down, and stick to your guns! YOU hold the cards, not him hun!! Best of luck,... Am here 4 u.., as i see many others are! You arnt alone... xxx
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296076 tn?1371338074
03/12
I understand what you mean.  Is this totally out of the norm for him or has he been a jerk before?  I cannot believe he is doing this to you while you are pg with his child.  Have you spoken tot he woman?
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296076 tn?1371338074
03/12
he needs to cut it off... if he is not willing you  might as well leave now
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
I just read your msg on FB & will reply tomorrow.  Thanks for the address & hugs to you & bubs!  XOX
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
I just read your new mood. Of course he must cut contact with this woman! That's the least he should do & would be one of the things I would have him do before agreeing to give your marriage another go. Once Charlotte comes along, you will be so busy, so please make sure you're in a good place (physically & mentally) before she is born. She is so precious Clare!  Please bring her into a good place.  She is your #1 priority now, not James.  Hugs to you! XOXOXO
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
I forgot to ask, so it's still OK for me to send the package to the last address you gave me on FB?  I'll send it soon so you have it before Charlotte comes along!  I'm praying all works out & James comes to his senses!!!!  XOX
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
Oh Clare! I'm sorry to say this but I really believe you & Charlotte deserve so much better than this. He still wants contact with this woman? I can't believe that, after what he did to you. But, I know you're vulnerable right now. Please look after yourself & don't let James hold all the strings. You're entering a beautiful phase in your life so don't let him hold you back if he's not 100% there. There are some stinker men (& women) out there, but there are also some worthy ones. Make sure he is worthy of you & your little girl!  Hugs to you!  XOXOXO  
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1002983 tn?1349825686
03/12
Clare, how are you doing?  Any decisions or reconciliation?  I hope all is better whatever you're doing & that Charlotte is doing well.  You don't have long to go now.  I'm really excited for you!!!!  XOX
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1002983 tn?1349825686
02/12
Take care Clare!  Stress free is good!!!!! Hugs to you & Charlotte XOXOX
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1002983 tn?1349825686
02/12
I think you're doing the right thing in getting yourself sorted & moving to where you have support & friends.  If he decides to 'grow up' & be the dad he said he would, then fine, but he's let you down badly & really stressed you.  He could have a wonderful life with you & Charlotte.  He needs to decide if he's going to let a stupid thing like the donor issue wreck that. My thoughts & love are with you & bubs!  Concentrate on YOU & HER.  You're gonna be a mama very soon & that's the most beautiful thing in the world!  Hugs!  XOXOX
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