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I feel like I can't connect with my baby, when I see it on the ultrasound it's like it's in someone else's body and I'm watching their ultrasound.  Is it a protection mechanism do you think? 04/13 - 17
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mhv I honestly think most ladies who have gone down the road so many of us on here have feel the same way.  We are so afraid that our dreams won't be fullfilled,   Don't be hard on yourself!  As the day grows closer, so will your connection.  
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Juliannamom It might be different once you're able to name him or her. It takes time. :)
04/13
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Gardezi def. a defense mechanism....but it would b all different when he/she will arrive safely in your arms...you are too hurt to feel the bonding right now...its totally normal and understandable....but it will happen eventually...its in our nature:))
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tones99 And I also have to say that even though you instantly love your baby when it arrives, its normal for the real bond to grow over the first few months. Ours did and I talked to loads of women the same. Has finding the sex changed anything? It did for me
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mandaszoo Definitely a way of protecting yourself. I felt the same after I lost my Sophie. Too scared to love but I am sure when you hold your little boy you will feel instant connection : )
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Hi, hope everyone is good! Havent been on here in ages. Hunter is 6 and a half months now & the light of my life :) Apr 17 - 1
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Ellen038 Glad to hear from you and to know you both are doing so well.
Apr 18
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Hi everyone! I apologise that I haven't been on here in ages - I have been so busy with my little man. Will post some new pics of him :) Jan 28 - 1
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Ellen038 Hi stranger!! How are you doing? Your little boy is beautiful. I'm sure he brings you tons of joy
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So sorry guys, I haven't had a chance to get on and update you.  Bubs and I are doing well.  Pics to come xx Oct 04 - 4
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nola0805 Thanks for posting these pictures.  I have been checking everyday.  Glad that you are both well - he is really something special.
Oct 04
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butterflybabies So glad you got on and posted pics. Are you guys home yet?
Oct 04
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pb95 Your pictures are fantastic!  You make a beautiful family!
Oct 05
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Heather3418 Can't wait to hear from you again, Kahli.  I know you are super busy taking care of a newborn and healing from a c-section, so I understand why you haven't been on line.  Just wanted to remind you, that even though you have had your baby, we are all here to lend an ear to listen and have a soft shoulder to lean, should you ever need it.  You are a huge part of the MedHelp family, Kahli and so is little Hunter.  Love you, little momma.  Gentle kisses to Hunter and warm hugs to you.  
Oct 10
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Hunter is here! Born 26 September at 11:59pm weighing 9 pounds, 3oz Sep 26 - 23
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renae176 Congrats so happy to hear that you had a safe Birth, Great News,
Oct 03
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Gardezi hope u and the little one are doing great...:)
Oct 03
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MH Community Mgr Congtratulations from all of us at MedHelp!
Oct 03
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cabayer11 Yeah! Hope your getting sleep and lots of smiles holding your beautiful boy! I'm so happy for you!
Oct 04
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laureninlove Wow 1 minute until he'd have been born on my birthday! Sorry I missed this news I wasn't online over my birthday week much so it must have slipped off the radar!! Congrats and so happy he's here and safe :) xx
Oct 12
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Being induced tomorrow (Wednesday over here)!!! Sooooo excited and sooooo nervous. Hope it goes smoothly. Sep 23 - 13
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pb95 I completely agree with Sherri's statement!!!  Can't wait!
Sep 23
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Ellen038 Sending prayers for a safe speedy delivery. I'm so happy for you that this day has finally come.
Much love
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Sep 24
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nola0805 How exciting!! Wishing you and baby H all the luck in the world.  I can't wait to see pictures of that sweet little boy.
Sep 24
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Heather3418 This is it, precious mommie.  You and baby Hunter will be my prayers.  I'm expecting a quick delivery for you.
Sep 24
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frank_noahsmommy Can not wait to see pics!!!
Sep 26
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