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I feel like I can't connect with my baby, when I see it on the ultrasound it's like it's in someone else's body and I'm watching their ultrasound.  Is it a protection mechanism do you think? 04/13 - 17
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mhv I honestly think most ladies who have gone down the road so many of us on here have feel the same way.  We are so afraid that our dreams won't be fullfilled,   Don't be hard on yourself!  As the day grows closer, so will your connection.  
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Juliannamom It might be different once you're able to name him or her. It takes time. :)
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Gardezi def. a defense mechanism....but it would b all different when he/she will arrive safely in your arms...you are too hurt to feel the bonding right now...its totally normal and understandable....but it will happen eventually...its in our nature:))
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tones99 And I also have to say that even though you instantly love your baby when it arrives, its normal for the real bond to grow over the first few months. Ours did and I talked to loads of women the same. Has finding the sex changed anything? It did for me
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mandaszoo Definitely a way of protecting yourself. I felt the same after I lost my Sophie. Too scared to love but I am sure when you hold your little boy you will feel instant connection : )
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OMG I haven't been on here in so long! Thank you for your notes guys, I will put up some recent pics of Hunter :) Sep 14 - 0
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OMG I hvent been on here in so long! Thank you for your notes guys, I will put up some recent pics of Hunter :) Sep 14 - 0
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Hi, hope everyone is good! Havent been on here in ages. Hunter is 6 and a half months now & the light of my life :) Apr 17 - 1
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Ellen038 Glad to hear from you and to know you both are doing so well.
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Hi everyone! I apologise that I haven't been on here in ages - I have been so busy with my little man. Will post some new pics of him :) Jan 28 - 1
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Ellen038 Hi stranger!! How are you doing? Your little boy is beautiful. I'm sure he brings you tons of joy
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So sorry guys, I haven't had a chance to get on and update you.  Bubs and I are doing well.  Pics to come xx 10/13 - 4
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nola0805 Thanks for posting these pictures.  I have been checking everyday.  Glad that you are both well - he is really something special.
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butterflybabies So glad you got on and posted pics. Are you guys home yet?
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pb95 Your pictures are fantastic!  You make a beautiful family!
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Heather3418 Can't wait to hear from you again, Kahli.  I know you are super busy taking care of a newborn and healing from a c-section, so I understand why you haven't been on line.  Just wanted to remind you, that even though you have had your baby, we are all here to lend an ear to listen and have a soft shoulder to lean, should you ever need it.  You are a huge part of the MedHelp family, Kahli and so is little Hunter.  Love you, little momma.  Gentle kisses to Hunter and warm hugs to you.  
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