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             Kindness is the language the blind can see and the deaf can hear..... Mark Twain 02/14 - 3
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Dee1956 Really good quote Barb, I think it is my favorite :) Thanks. Dee
03/14
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orphanedhawk Yes, thanks for that wonderful quote~ a good reminder :)
03/14
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Barb135 Just a little kindness often goes a long way toward making someone's behavior/attitude change.  I try to keep that in mind, unfortunately, it slips away now and then.
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            I'm responsible for what I say; I'm not responsible for what you understand... May 12 - 10
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Barb135 My husband is hard of hearing, so he hears a lot of things I didn't say or doesn't hear a lot things I did say... I'm not responsible for that.  That's his problem.  How he perceived it? That might be his problem too.  
May 14
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Barb135 I didn't say it well - I'm using my husband as an example - but if I say something and  he doesn't understand, it's his responsibility to clarify, what I meant; it's not my responsibility to make sure he "got it"...
May 14
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specialmom I get what you mean Barb.  And I agree.  I figure if someone isn't sure of my meaning, they should ask me rather than assuming.  Communication goes two ways.  Right?  
May 14
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Jade59 Right, SP (and Barb).  My husband misunderstands what I say all the time.  He is sure he understood my meaning, while I am sure I made myself clear.  Leads to many confusing conversations.
May 14
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Jade59 I meant to end with 'who is right'?  I am of course!!  lol
May 14
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            We don't have to agree on "anything" to be kind to each other... May 03 - 0
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            Don't stress over people who don't deserve to be an issue in your life... Jan 24 - 5
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CRSeaside Great advice. I recently gave too much of my personal power to someone & got disappointed big time! Maxy
Jan 31
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Barb135 Oh, not good... I have an older brother who butted into my life in a major way, not long ago and really caused a lot of heartache... I still have days I struggle with the hurt. (hugz)
Jan 31
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Steve_jobs Hi Miss, Your advices are really helpful and interesting,, You explain it well!!  I need your help on my younger sister thyroid report.. If you are comfortable than kindly send me you email to forward the soft copy of her report.. Great help - Thanks!!
Mar 07
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Steve_jobs My email is jobs.crossroads@gmail.com
Mar 07
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Icannot Barb, in 2012, I got excellent help from you concerning my diagnosis of hashimoto's thyroid...I gave you my reports and you helped me so much I told you I thought you must be a doctor! thank you again For your help..it was start of autonomic neuropathy...
Jun 14
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            Do what you feel in your heart to be right -- for you'll be criticized anyway.  Eleanor Roosevelt Dec 26 - 2
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Dee1956 Good one Barb!  I like that...it is so true :)
Jan 15
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Dee1956 I had to come back, this is so true, especially in my mind.  I never feel like I make the right choice.  thanks for this, you are the best!
Jan 19
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            Merry Christmas... Dec 25 - 2
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Dee1956 Merry Christmas to you as well dear Barb.  I hope you have a wonderful day.  Dee
Dec 25
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Barb135 Thank you, Dee.  Same to you...
Dec 26
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