Just a quick note to say hi n i read you post and went thru somethng very similar as you my ex left me whn i was 2 .nths preg with our 3rd as well i jus had him on the 19th howevr thyr dad hasnt calld or wantd 2 c thm since he left bak in july. i hope all is workin out 4 u n the new baby is doin well. take care n please keep in touch i think singlemoms need to stick together