Thank you for your kind words. Watching my father die by inches in our home is one of the most difficult things I have ever had to face. I'm sure that your Mom understands that you are not able to be with her. On earth our parents give us the one and only unconditional love.
It sounds like you have much to deal with yourself. I hope you will consider becoming an active member of our community. We all support and comfort one another.
My heart and well wishes go out to you and your Mom.
Tuck