I just realized I'm spelling your name wrong...it's fedupp, not feddup! Sorry!
Hi Feddup, Thank you so much for keeping in touch and writing me. I'm sorry about your trip to the ER for the migrane. That sounds very painful and awful. Are you feeling better now? I remember last March when I was at you stage of recovery and I wanted to feel better than I was feeling. I was impatient and wanted to feel great, but I only felt ok and sometimes I still felt terrible. It took me until day 45 to really feel "clean".
As for the divorce versus getting clean. I have decided to focus on getting clean first. You are so right and have a great point about wanting to clean everything out at once. Though, my marriage was falling apart way before Trams came into play. I have alot to deal with before I tackle getting divorced
Anyway, best wishes and please write anytime.
Bode
Hi there. Thanks so much for your post. I agree. Going through W/D and a divorce at the same time is going to be horrendous! So I will think about delaying the divorce until I am clean. I'm also being sued by a student of mine who fell off her horse while I was instructing her. I was not at fault, but will have to defend myself and waste thousands of dollars to do so. My husband doesnt even know. He would literally kill me if he knew. In fact he really knows nothing in my life. Sad. That is why being a part of this forum is so important to me. I am very grateful for people like you who reach out. I will think more about the timing thanks to your post.
How are you doing? Are you feeling well? Sending warmest wishes your way......Bode
T just messes with so many parts of your body and brain that I expect long term withdrawal effects. My theory is expect the worst, and then I am pleased when things are going well.
While I have had a 20 day headache - my enegy level is better and my mood is more consistant.
The longer I hang on the better it will get - that I know.
Hang in there