I was touched by your message and feel that we share a great deal and a different understanding than some others...it is so tough having to deal with this without our husbands being there. Many hugs xxx :)
It is hard when rumours start as they can grow and spread so quickly particularly in a community. As my husband is a volunteer I do not have this to deal with..but I also do not have that support. I wish you all the best talking to your husband's Command and sometimes feel it is best to be open and honest..it is hard when it all so raw and new though. I found initially I wanted to tell people but that I had not really accepted it myself. I think I am now getting there..but there is still a little part of me that thinks..have I really got MS and is it for real...perhaps the consultants have made a mistake. I know this is just the scared part of me that fears for what is ahead. Anyhow keep in touch and any time you wish to talk then please send a message xxx :)
You're in my thoughts all the time, but especially today. I just wanted to see how you are doing as you sounded greatly in need of support. It can be so lonely when your husband is not there and very hard as you do not have someone to talk about everything with. I have been thorugh a whole load of emotions but have now found a calmer acceptance and I can feel that my body respects this more peaceful approach to life. I have learnt to ask for help and found that many people have been willing to give in so many way..it does nto come naturally to me but I have found some positives from my dx tha I would not have expected. But this is an individual journey and we all have to find our own paths. Anyhow hope you are doing a bit better today. Love and hugs Sarah xxxx