let me make this very clear--we NEVER allowed him to smoke pot and we never have and we dont even smoke or drink-- he is also forbidden to have anything parepanalia wise -- he does this defiantley with freinds out of the house or has snuck it in or hidden home made pipes---thats why i am posting here for advice-- we cannot control what he does when we are not present--sorry you misunderstood/mis read what i wrote
Yes that sounds good! Just be there for him. Inpatient rehabs are nice, and they will help if the family counseling doesn't.