hi there, i was just letting you know that i have had the same thing going on and i only use dove bar soap (unsented) down there and your fiance should not be using anything smell good down there either. hope it helps.
did you find out if you had BV, because I am having EXACTLY the same symptoms. I have researched it and couldn't find anything like what I have experienced. The doctor did a wet mount and said there was a few clue cells, but everything looked normal, but wanted to treat me for BV. She can me Flagyl for seven days and diflucan afterwards. I have only taken three flagyl pills so far. I couldn't believe when I read your post and I have been having the exact samething. I really didn't know for sure if the discharge was coming from the urethra or other.