Hello Michelle, and welcome!
I have read your post in the special needs forum and I wanted first to reach out and say welcome. I am hoping many mom's or parents in general will post answers to your question you posted as it seems that you need some answers right away. Without getting to deeply into answering your question here, I am at your disposal if ever you feel you would like to message me directly.
Again, welcome to MedHelp!
Sincerely,
Sandi (Dragon1973)
MedHelp Genetics Community Leader;
Children - Special Needs Community Leader;
Down syndrome Community Leader & Ds Group Forum Founder/Moderator;
MTHFR Group Forum Founder/Moderator;
Pregnancy: June 2011 Community Leader